relationship trouble :(

[Lynsy1]

Recently, my husband has been acting strange. We have been married nearly two years but something about him just isn't right. I love him like crazy and he always says he feels the same way about me. But something inside me tells me different. Do you think I'm being paranoid or do you think i should perhaps dump him?
Many Thanks
From
Lynsy
:)
xx

[maggie01]

I can't believe you asked should you dump him because you have a feeling something isn't right.

Ask him. Or do you not talk to each other

[cazzz1975]

until you know what exactly "isnt right" then there is not much you can do

[pastafreak]

*dump him* ???
Isn't that a bit extreme?? What happened to 'for richer,for poorer..for better,for worse'? Surely you need to talk to him,as there are so many reasons why he may seem different to you. It is no good making a blanket judgement based purely on a 'feeling' . It is a disservice to both of you and to your marriage.If you are truely committed to him...and he to you,then you will talk and also seek help if needed.

[mrs.chappie]

I think you're being paranoid. You say you love him like crazy and he tells you he feels the same.

What more do you want?

PS - Not being funny or owt, honestly!

[weeal]

oh its lynsy1 again, LOL

[pastafreak]

Is there a clue in the posters name,weeal..????

[Coppertop84]

Talk to him. You cannot just push aside the committment of marriage just because you think 'something is't right'.

Marriage needs both husband and wife to talk through any problems, and it very rarely is plain sailing.

You need to work at a marriage as you have committed to sharing your whole lives together - you cannot just 'dump' that!

I hope talking with him clears any problems! xxx

[weeal]

nah pasta shes just a wind up merchant thats all

[sara3]

"shall I dump my lovely husband?" asks Lynsy with a smiley face.

Lynsy is a journalist for The Sun newspaper. you missed a corker of a thread the other day!

[weeal]

but she canny spell LOL

[pastafreak]

????....is it still here,sara??

Have you a link...I need a laugh...lol

[weeal]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/News/Question79 0575.html

tee hee

[caththecrazy]

He was probably acting more strangly the day he married you though, just coming to his senses.

Yeah dump him - he deserves someone who will treat him well.

[pastafreak]

Hahahaha!!.....thanks weel......that was short,sweet....and very funny.
Damn...I can write better than lynsy can....maybe I have missed my vocation.....

[weeal]

there was another thread re the spelling of Jerry (Gerry) but its since been banned lol

My work is done here ... G'night

[sara3]

I'm afraid the other thread has gone.

Lynsy was invited for tea at her friend's house but when she got there her (female) friend was sat naked, watching porn on the computer. Lynsy's concern was that it looked like rape, and her question was "should porn be banned?". she also gave a link to the porn site in question.

bizarre really. apparently her husband is a police officer, but she didn't think to ask him!

[brenda]

lynsy 1--for goodness sake grow up. After 2 years married don't you knowanything about relationships. Stop looking for things that are not there --before you do your husband's head in , and you go round the twist. Get on with life -why don't you.?

[Lynsy1]

Well, to those of you who gave me a sensible answer - thankyou.

To those of you I would just like to say - next time I need relationship help I know not to accept it from people with the username Sara3.

And Sara3 - this is your bit - you need to learn that whatever insult you try and issue me with next - it isn't going to make any difference to who I am. I've always found you an annoying person, but i never complaied! Think what you like about me, because i couldn't give a toss.

Thanks to everyone who gave me good answers! :)
Cya people!
xox

[sn�gs]

''do you think i should perhaps dump him?''

Why? Because 'something' isn't right?... yes... dump him immediately... even though you say you love him like crazy... don't, whatever you do, discuss it with him...

Paranoid? Possibly...

Delusional? Definitely...