Wit's End

[christina69]

I think my boyfriend (whom i live with) is bi-polar and i'm at my wit's end. He is soooo sweet & kind and loving one minute and the next... he's flying off the handle cursing & calling me vicious names. This has been going on for months...at one point... i told him i was leaving... he was devistated...and told me he never wanted to be without me...that i was his angel. He can't help it...when he gets mad...he says things he doesnt mean... Well that's all well and good...but it's getting old...and very tiresome. I thought maybe he was out fkng around with someone because he gets soooo jealous if i talk about anyone... female or male... i'm not allowed to go out without him...well i am... but when i get home...it's instant attitude and instant insults and accusations. And i remember someone once telling me... that most of the time...when someone is cheating... they will do everything in their power to make it seem like the other person is doing something wrong...to make themselves feel better. other bit of info: he takes a lot of pain meds...because of a back injury... percs... could this be adding to his temper????

[ansme]

he needs to seek help from a doc and get his medication sorted, maybe it's his blood sugars? diet? but either way he needs to get it sorted or one day he might take it out on the wrong person and things could get really bad.

[christina69]

and if it is bi-polar...HOW IN THE WORLD do i bring that up...????

and yea... i think some of it may be immature...but i honestly think there is a "problem" here... and if i can help him... then i want to...but i just honestly do not know how to bring it up.

[raysroad]

Maybe having a constant back ache could be making him bad tempered?