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what are you trying to do old man ? cross the road ?

:o]
10:58 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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What kinda help are you after?
10:58 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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Sorry pressed the wrong button.
10:58 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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its the black button that makes the red man go green.
10:59 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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Right...start again.

My wife is having an affair and she has admitted that he is the one for her, but does not want to breakup the marriage.

My wife is well dressed, good cook and keeps a good home, we have a high standard of living and I do not want to upset the applecart.

Do I ask for a divorce?
11:01 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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..................and your point is ?
11:02 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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You've just said you dont want to upset the applecart so you've answered your own question
11:03 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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jack.....read the ultimate sentence.
11:03 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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so why isn't she with him?
11:03 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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It's an individual choice.
11:04 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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why would she not want to break up the marriage ? why wouldn't you?
11:04 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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Sqad - You have posted this as a sort of follow-on from Jessy pie's thread.............

I was asking why.

Although I suspect you are attempting to show us the other side of the coin, I believe that your comments on the other thread are self-expanatory of your position.
11:06 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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sara.....because I supply the material things in life that she requires and he supplies her emotional needs.

ankou....your answer is the same as sara's
11:07 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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jack......;-)
11:08 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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isn't that ever so slightly emasculating ?
11:08 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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I'd say, what a shame she values material things over what really matters.

very sad.

to answer your question, why ask for a divorce when the marriage means so little to both of you? you may as well (kind of) stay together.
11:09 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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sara


"to answer your question, why ask for a divorce when the marriage means so little to both of you? you may as well (kind of) stay together."

and so many do.

P.S I didn't ask "why ask for a divorce" I asked "do i ask for a divorce?"
11:12 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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no, of course not. you're both "happy", aren't you?
11:13 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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you could ask for a divorce, or you could insist she ends her relationship with the man and then make attempts to fulfil her emotional needs yourself.
11:16 Tue 27th Oct 2009
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lol!
11:16 Tue 27th Oct 2009

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