Do you have to be attracted to someone......

[SC00BY]

Hi,
I'm single, and so is my best friend. The thing is we are perfect for each other. We get on so well and have exactly the same interests. We would make the 'perfect' couple. The thing is I just don't fancy her. I love her to bits, but only as a mate.

Could I ever grow to fancy her? Is just getting on enough to make a go of a relationship. Or is it not worth risking the perfect friendship?

[tamborine]

Perhaps distance will either make or break this relationship

[top_driver]

my advice is stay as mates, unless otherwise you actualy start to fancy her, even at that, but don't base it on a MAYBE you will,. you might be perfect for each other, but that just be as mates, and if you break that line, you risk drifting apart as mates, hope this helps

[ummmm]

Does she fancy you?

[snags]

''The thing is I just don't fancy her''

Stay good mates...

[NoMercy]

If there's no spark or sexual chemistry, what have you got to build on?

[SC00BY]

Thanks everone. Mates it is. I think perhaps part of the reson we are such good friends is that there is no attraction there.
Thanks again

[Panic Button]

Whatever you do, don't get drunk together.

[SC00BY]

We have been drunk together, a lot! and crashed in the same bed. Nothing has ever happened!

[Panic Button]

There is somethng a bit unnatural about you two.

[ciaraciara]

well if you don't fancy her then dont try to make something that could get complicated out of nothing :)

[ELVIS68]

SC00BY, are you gay?

[top_driver]

Elvis68,,,, just coz he doesn't fancy her, and hasn't taken a dip when they'v shared a bed dont make him gay