yes if you tell them you love them after you have broke up then you are just setting yourself up for a fall ,if she/he finished with you and they love you they will be back,if not then put it down to experience and move on
This is the big problem Ummmmm....i know they do....but to just wait and wait, Im stubborn and so are they...what to do.....last contact was couple of months ago..in a quandry now....
Trouble is Im stubborn, I want to 'break the ice' but am afraid of the fall and dont want to lose my pride....so maybe i shouldnt - just let it go.....its a sign of weakness if i tell him...
not most ,but i guess some do ,if they are scared ie things getting too serious and they think that is the best way they know if they talk then it wont be over if that makes sense
No affairs, no unfaithfullness, it ended abruptly, he has issues, as in slightly disordered personality...like i said it was complicated...but i cant help but still love him. Let sleeping dogs lie...
If you feel you can love him complete with all the issues and make a long term go of it, then tell him you Love him. If the issues are a problem and you can`t then move on.