What is the cost of love?

[postage]

I heard a heart break last night.
My mate been seeing this girl for 2.5 years and 6 months ago they broke up.
A year ago she started to change and become ruthless,started to change she started to demand money from him. It got to a
stage where he sold every thing he had to give her the money
He has nothing now/

He started to borrow money from me, and often loads of ity and left me broke. He even borrowed from the loan sharks and got him self in trouble I bailed him out at my expence.
Last week she dumped him said you don’t have any money. So ppppppppppppp off.

He was so shocked that all he done for her she spoke to him like he was a nothing.

[China Doll]

You're both rather silly, him for staying involved and your for breaking yourself giving him money. Take it as a lesson learnt and your mate sounds like he'll be better off in the long term.

[redman41]

The first time she started to demand money from him he should have sent her down the banks and told her to eff off. Women like her are just gold diggers and he has been taken for a ride.

[poodicat]

Blinded by love i think!!

[tamborine]

He has time to save up - she'll be back when new partner runs out of money

[postage]

tamborine i think youhit thenail on the head mate, he is blinded by her beauty and he will run to her when she calls ---- and she will, she has never worked always have claimed unemployement benefits etc etc. funny she and her family have never worked why should they our coucil gives them a three bedroom flat and pays for it. she gets money for liveing ha ha ha jobs seekers allowance but seeks a job.

why would she my mate been looking after her.. do you think its better he is hurt now and be btter off in the long run.

[tamborine]

my fav song.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQh112HQsoE

[postage]

yes I know the song but you know what forget that kind of love that leaves you broke and all your pay is gone the day you get it --- you have to beg for money and for food //

[piggynose]

these women are called " lobitas " in spain. lobita is young wolf. we call them in the uk i beleive golddiggers, bloodsuckers. i met one myself briefly, luckily she didnt drain me, but did always expect to be pampered all the time, on my small wage. she´s gone now, without a goodbye. but as someelse said she´ll be back when her new bloke sees the wood for the trees. but i´ve learnt my lesson. so she cant come back. i´ve got a less prettier girlfriend, but shes got a big heart, loyal, loving. and insists we always go dutch.

[postage]

if only my mate could see this for himself . she is very prety but not worth the headace.

[Garmard]

Sounds like a very greedy, ruthless individual he is best keeping his distance from.
She should get a job in politics.

[ummmm]

Pretty but obviously doesn't have any morals.....

[tamborine]

just 'cause you cant afford a woman she's called a 'lobita' - sad blokes !

[Garmard]

I believe it is the way she went about it tamborine, most people with morals, male or female will tell you it is wrong.

[postage]

Garmard ruthless is the correct word she's heartless he has loved her truley and given her every thing. he been teaching her how to drive in his car---- insured her on his car and paid for it. he is very hurt but what can i do to help him apart from bit food and money

[postage]

he is not a teenager but a adult 27 year old man and wants to get kicked out and shitted on by her. he sold every thing i gave him to fund her greedy needs.... lipsticks powdersss.... i found out the hard way that he been taking money from me and funding her needs

[tamborine]

nowt to do with morals.....most men foot the bills of their women.

[postage]

fools!!

[Old_Geezer]

They say love is blind, but I'd like to think most would spot that one coming a mile off. It should be about a partnership, not one doing al the giving and the other the taking. Has only himself to blame when he reached the stage where he "had" to borrow to keep up with demand. I trust he has learnt a valuable life lesson, well worth the cost.

[ummmm]

Not in my world Tambo.....