Crosswords0 min ago
What is it with men???
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Im not having much luck at all in the dating game presently. All I do is meet weird guys! Why do strange guys insist of sending me naked photos of themselves ? I dont get it, why send offensive photos to someone they dont know ? Any potential dates I meet just want no strings sex and I have really had enough now...
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I really think you may want to re-read your last sentence!
Seriously, what are these guys getting that leads them to you? Maybe what is being sent to them about youmakes them think this is an appropriate response, as well as some of them being wierdo's. I am going on your choice of avatar for starters which hardly suggests a girl who is interested in intellectual debates, so if what is going out is similar, I would not be surprised at the response you are getting.
I really think you may want to re-read your last sentence!
Seriously, what are these guys getting that leads them to you? Maybe what is being sent to them about youmakes them think this is an appropriate response, as well as some of them being wierdo's. I am going on your choice of avatar for starters which hardly suggests a girl who is interested in intellectual debates, so if what is going out is similar, I would not be surprised at the response you are getting.
Why don't you meet real men, don't do it on-line? My sister tried on-line for a bit and everyone she met seemed to have some sorts of hang-ups (or family, one bloke brought his mum with him). Join a few clubs or start going to a class, you meet ordinary guys that way who have a bit more to life that their fancy bits.
Redrum,
You may not think it is a good answer, but this is not about you directly, but the perception of you that others may interpret, form the signals you give out. What other information do thye have about the sort of lady you are?
If you go to a shop, say Lidl, which works on a keep it basic and simple philosophy, you are not going to expect the same goods as if you went to Harrods, and everything looks very well displayed (and expensive).
You may not like it, but that is how the world is!
You may not think it is a good answer, but this is not about you directly, but the perception of you that others may interpret, form the signals you give out. What other information do thye have about the sort of lady you are?
If you go to a shop, say Lidl, which works on a keep it basic and simple philosophy, you are not going to expect the same goods as if you went to Harrods, and everything looks very well displayed (and expensive).
You may not like it, but that is how the world is!
I'd recommend trying to meet men socially as well, why not look into local social or interest groups so you can meet guys you have something in common qith and get to know them gradually in a less pressurised environment?
Finding a new group of friends or hobby might also take your mind off meeting men and chances are one will then appear when you least expect it.
Alternatively maybe change dating site to a more highbrow relationship based one and make it clear on your profile that you are not looking for just sex. The ones you pay more for usually tend to have a more relationship based class of men I find as they are paying for it whereas there are plenty of other sites they can go on to find no strings sex.
I did some internet dating a while back and went on a load of lovely dates with some lovely guys. You will always get the ones just after one thing but just ignore them and move on.
Finding a new group of friends or hobby might also take your mind off meeting men and chances are one will then appear when you least expect it.
Alternatively maybe change dating site to a more highbrow relationship based one and make it clear on your profile that you are not looking for just sex. The ones you pay more for usually tend to have a more relationship based class of men I find as they are paying for it whereas there are plenty of other sites they can go on to find no strings sex.
I did some internet dating a while back and went on a load of lovely dates with some lovely guys. You will always get the ones just after one thing but just ignore them and move on.
