Bisexuality in relationships

[Mcvj]

Hey guys,

Would love to get your views on this: http://www.goodtoknow...with-a-bisexual-man--

My interest is not really with the main story (however interesting) but rather with the comments that some readers have left. I'm of the opinion that cheating is cheating, whether it be with someone of the same gender or not. I cant believe that there are women afraid to confront the issue because of what they may find out!

That being said, I don't know whether I could go to the effort of entertaining a man's desire to prance around a carpark in women's clothes to 'wind up' men. Yeah, I'm sure that's ALL he's doing.

[thetruthhurts]

I am of the opinion that there is no such thing as a bi-sexual. A 'bi-sexual' man is simply a gay man in denial and the same with a bi-girl.

[LoftyLottie]

On what do you base your opinion THT?

[rowanwitch]

It is not uncommon for a man to say 'I m Bi because it is too hard to admit to themselves it might be a case of I'm gay, I was married to a man who decided to get on the other bus, and a friend married a man she understood was Bi neither relationship lasted both of us managed around 11-12 years of it though
Yes cheating is cheating, just because it is with a person of the same gender doesn't make it any better, My friend thought she could cope with sharing on the basis she felt he would not get emotionally involved with another man,,,,, he did and at that point they called it quits. Another of my male gay friends was married for some years he has children who were in their late teens when he left , Transvestitism is another thing altogether, there are many straight transvestites who maintain close and loving relationships, it is all about trust at the end of the day..

[LoftyLottie]

I mean TTH. Sorry.

Sexual attraction is complex and I can see so reason why men and women can't be attracted to both sexes.

[thetruthhurts]

It's just an opinion. I have a gay cousin and have socialised a lot with him and his friends and it's a lot of gay mens opinion that this is indeed the case. I'm not saying it's beyond doubt, but It is my opinion.

[LoftyLottie]

Fair enough TTH. It may be in some cases where a man is worried to admit he is gay, but as far as I am concerned it is more to do with genetical pre-disposition!

[ummmm]

The problem with being Bi is there's more temptation.

[LoftyLottie]

And more choice ummmm ;o)

[Count-A-Strong]

and more STI's

[LoftyLottie]

Very true, Count!!

[joeluke]

Gay = Man with man and woman with woman

Therefore bi =gay

regardless of whether they like the opposite sex too

[Eve]

It's hardly a genetic marker though like male or female!

Why pidgeon hole people because of labels society has created?

Why can't people be attracted to both?