dont mean to sound harsh but i cant stand effing stand her!

[lotsafun]

Hi everyone, we hold alot of bbqs/parties throughout the year especially the summer for all our neighbours and friends, its kind of a open invitation thing where they can bring there friends along, just aslong as they bring a bottle or 2 with them. The only thing is both me and my partner seriously dislike my next door neighbours ''best'' friend, we do have our reasons, its not just that she thinks she's chocolate and thinks its ok to berate people, but because she is pure trouble and has almost split my partner and i up before now because of her sarcastic comments and rumours. Anyway she invites herself along and will do anyhting to draw attention to herself and to be quite frank my partner went nuts last sat night and had to walk away before he kicked off at her. He spent the rest of the night in the house because he couldnt bear to be near her, he done this because he didnt want to make everyone feel uncomfortable by kicking off. To try to cut a long story short i went and argued with him about it being our party and if anyon eis to leave then it is her and he said some very harsh, harsh but very true insults about her, all for this to be heard by everyone on our baby monitor lol. Despite her hearing what he thought about her etc you would think she wouldve left.......but no!
Anyway were having another on in a couple of weeks for my father in laws birthday and its going to be a pretty big event. Ive told my neighbour that under no curcumstances is she to bring that friend along with her and why, but the word is that she is the type that invites herself to things anyway. What to do, any suggestions? if she turns up i'll end up smacking her

[joko]

if you can, write her a note, stating she will be turned away. might seem over the top but it will certainly hammer home the message

[supersuezy24]

If she turns up ask to speak to her inside in private and then tell her she isn't welcome and shove her out the door, at least that way you save face and don't have a big bust up in front of everyone.

[jno]

you don't actually have to make it invitation-only - your own home is always invitation-only. If you don't want her there, tell her to leave. Simple.

[lardhelmet]

Evening suezy - "shove her out the door" - love it - "byeeeeeee!" <<<<<<shove>>>>>>

[supersuezy24]

I'm telling ya Lardy, that's the way to deal with her..
And then if she goes to get her bag, go get it for her and throw it at her then don't let her take her bottle of wine back hahaha

[jno]

no, don't keep anything of hers; that might give her the right to come back onto the property to get it.

[supersuezy24]

Not if ya drink it in front of her..haha, sorry..Seriously though tell her to bog off

[lardhelmet]

It sounds like something out of a soap doesn't it - with the bag flying out the door after her - "Go on, sling yer 'ook - gerouda my pub"

[lardhelmet]

sorry "gerrouda my house"

[supersuezy24]

Gerrouddddaaaaaa maaa gaff!!!!! lol