do you think he is interested?

[hellokitty76]

there is this guy who my friend says like me. he stares at me everytime i go into the shop he works in, and it is sort of constant staring. he always smiles at me and comes over to talk to me and seems happy when he is talking with me and happy to see me. he asked how old i was and told me about him and his life and asked about mine.

one time i went into the shop with a friend, to get a present for my friend. while we were in there, he kept looking at me all the time and i would look at him and we would both see the other one looking. when my friend went out to have a cigerette, and for me to get the present, as soon as my friend left, he came over and gave me a big smile and started talking to me, we talked for a long time about everything and he seemed to enjoy it, while we were talking we would look into each others eyes and he would smile at me, and look at me in a way i cant really describe (a good way), we would stand very close together to all the time.

i told him about a problem i had with my xbox 360 and he said to bring it in tomorrow and he will have a look at it. so i did, turn out the hard drive was broken so he gave me a new one for free, they cost about £50. he didnt have to give it to me for free as i brought it there probably 3 years ago.

however he has a girlfriend but has never really mentioned her. he once said that he came from his girlfriends house, thats how i know he has one, but that was in passing when he was saying something else. he also is going to spain with her in about a week and a half, but he only said with her when i asked him who is he going with. im sort of confused as he has a girlfriend but then he constantly stares at me and as my friend would say flirts really obvious with me.
i want to repay him for fixing my xbox and giving me the free hard drive as i feel bad as it is a lot of money and stuff.

[hellokitty76]

i went in there this monday to ask him if he would let me buy him a drink to say thank you for helping me. i went in the shop with a friend and then he left to smoke a cigarette, and the man came over to me and started talking like we normally do. i made him laugh a lot and he seems really happy to be talking with me, he always looks me in the eyes and smiles when he sees me. i preordered a game and he was looking if there was any other ones, and preordered some for me without me even saying, and he preordered one for me because he was getting it too. it was late so the shop was going to close soon so he had to sort out the tills so before saying bye i asked if he would like to go out for a drink so i could say thank you for the other day. he said his girlfriend is extremely jealous and it is a very kind gesture (said something like that about the gesture), and that he would love to another time. he didnt say it in a fast, uninterested way. he said it with a smile and seemed genuine about it. but what do you think he meant, do you think he is interested in me? im confused, my friend seems to think that he really likes me and that it is obvious by the way he acts and tells me about his life and interests, by the way he stares at me and always talks to me and smiles and seems genuinely happy to see me and talk with me. we have a lot in common too. what do you think he meant by 'i would love to another time'?.
since i can remember him working in that shop, he has always stared at me. he even did when he worked in it before the store moved which was about 2 years ago. but since it had moved it has been more intense, i think that is the right word. before he wouldnt really come over and talk but when the store moved he always asked me if i wanted help and now he just comes over to me and talks about normal stuff, doesnt even ask if i need help, just comes and talks.

[NoMercy]

Why have I got deja vu?

Sorry.. don't mean to be rude, but I just recall hearing this story before.

[karenmac60]

Either he's just being friendly and maybe likes you as a person/regular customer or maybe he fancies you a bit. Doesn't really matter either way, he has a girlfriend. I'm sure plenty of people who work in shops or whatever have regulars who they like to see, it brightens up their day, gives them something interesting to do or whatever, but at the end of the day that's all it is - a wee distraction. You know nothing about one another and I doubt he'd leave his girlfriend for a virtual stranger. Get over it and either see it for what it is or find another shop to go to.

[redcrx]

http://www.theanswerb...members/hellokitty76/

because she posts it every other day, No mercy :)

[brenda]

hellokitty-- this guy wants a bit on the side and you could be it. Get out of the situation whilst you can .

[TTG]

Sorry but posting a mini-novel probably won't get many answers!

Hope you sort it out whatever the problem is.