I had NoM down for the weekend, and whilst lying in bed we had a chat about 'the bedroom'. Now the outcome of this is that we ended up having a bit of a barney about something, which ended up with her demanding something that I wasn't prepared to give.
It's caused a bit of a rift, and I obviously want to make it up to her, but don't want to back down either.
You don't know her well enough to placate her or calm her down but you know her well enough to sleep with her then tell all and sundry on here about it.
if you disagree fundamentally on something, then there are four possibilities:
(a) one backs down
(b) the other backs down
(c) both back down (aka 'compromise')
(d) you give up.
You won't give details, we can't give well thought out advice without them.
Generally: say sorry even if you believe you are in the right, and find a compromise between you. Perhaps give a bunch of flowers so she has something to throw at you when she yells.
OK - if this is a joke - and you insist it is not - then it's a waste of AB space.
If it's not a joke, and you need advice, you are going to have to post more information than you have thus far - nothing to go on means no constructive responses.
ok I have read the thread and my initial opinion is that it is a wind up, nom would surely go ballistic if it were real and bob was telling the world, which would make his current problem seem like a walk in the park compared to his next..