my husbands best mate drinks too much.

[ClaireBare]

to the extent he's always doing something disgusting at our house. Hes peed in the kitchen sink, the conservatory and in a wardrobe and the last time he was here i found him pleasuring himself with one of my daughters teddybear toys. (threw it out). Im at the end of my tether and my OH wont speak to him about hs drinking. What do you thnk i can do to stop him?

[Sqad]

The answer is obvious......get rid of your husband......you are married to a t0sser.

[MickyMacgraw]

Sqad I like your thinking :)

[saxy_jag]

The men in my family have done a few stupid things when drunk (my Uncle was once arrested at 2.00 in the morning, swinging through trees in Kettering, pretending to be Tarzan, and my Dad once cleared a cup-laden table on a station platform in the middle of the night). But the worst they've ever done in the house is to fall asleep on the sofa, sing too loudly, talk too much or throw up in the bathroom. And boy, have they known about it afterwards, because the women just won't put up with it. We give them hell over it and that's why they don't do it very often.

So you give this guy hell, and you also give your partner a good roasting over bringing him home in that state and forbid him to do so again. After all, you'd both do the same if your daughter brought home someone as bad in a few years. And if your partner's concerned about his mate getting home safely then tell him to go and stay with him!

[ummmm]

A good roasting eh Saxy?? :-)

I would chuck him out myself....

[boxtops]

How dare your husband expose you and your children to this pervert? Peeing in the sink is unacceptable in itself, and his behaviour shows that he thinks anything goes. What does your husband say? I would not give this guy the pleasure of getting through the door ever again. Best mate? - in what respect?

[pastafreak]

A 'best mate' does not treat his friends home with such disrespect.It seems he lacks all inhibitions when he is drunk...as it is-it looks like he has few to start with.
And your husband sounds like a coward if he is worried about talking to this guy...he needs to put his family and home FIRST.

[China Doll]

I wouldn't let him over the doorstep and if my OH continued to allow him in, I'd kick them both out or put the chain on the door so they couldn't get in. I wouldn't tolertate anyone that drunk in my own home, especially if I had kids.

[ummmm]

*sitting here waiting patiently*

[cazzz1975]

I cant abide drunks.

[sandyRoe]

This behaviour really isn't about drunkenness. To use one of your children's toys as he did is sinister. To urinate where he did shows a contempt for your family. He could be a potentially dangerous man.
There's an old saying: In vino veritas (in drink truth) I don't know whet he's like when he's sober, but the drunk man is the true one.

[pastafreak]

The alcohol simply exaggerates what is already there-loosens the inhibitions. As I said-he does not seem to have any,which is very worrying indeed.

[Dris]

I bet she is going Mads at him just now and quite right too !!!!!!

[Dris]

*Mad*

[Dris]

What am I like-think i'm going mad myself:(
*mad*

[woofgang]

yes SandyRoe I agree

[ummmm]

up wind

[Dris]

cadet space

[ClaireBare]

gosh lots of answers to read thanks to all. hes a loud loutish typically blokey type when sober. He seems to ignre the fact he wakes up with sodden trousers.

[Dris]

Wasnt too urgent then-thats all good Thought you would be going Mads at him -I would -too right !!!!

[ClaireBare]

lost me there dris, if it was urgent as in life and death i wouldn't ask on a chat site. As for bein mad love i was Fluffin' furious.