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how do i get my son to move out?

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chonge70 | 15:13 Tue 09th Jan 2007 | Parenting
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my son is 18 yrs old, he left school 2 yrs ago has been sacked from 2 apprenticships, 2 college courses and another job. he says he wants a job but does nothing to actually get 1, then when i get hin 1 he gets sacked! i personnally do not believe he is interested in working and he constantly has excuses when i aproach the subject. he lies in bed most of the day, doesnt contribute towards anything at home, smokes weed constantly and so far has bummed his way through the last 2 yrs. i have tried everything to encourage my son but it seems to be that the more interest i take in his life the less he actually does! it has now got to the stage were i have had enough and want him out!!!!!!!!!!!!! when i tell him this he just laughs at me and refuses to go. How the hell do i get him out?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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heres what i think:
You need to sit him down, tell him it is important that he listens to you, then tell him what you want from him, give him a deadline to get a job, ensure he knows you want him off the pot (and dont allow him smoking at home) out of bed at a reasonable time of day (you state) and contributes to the upkeep of the home he is allowed to live at. then tell him the deadlines are important and that you will want him to move out that same day if he has not met them, ont he day, change your locks and pack his bag for him if necessary, he pobably just needs to know your serious and when he see's that you are, he will have to grow up quick

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