Jokes1 min ago
i want a baby
i always wanted kids i am 21and he is 24 we have been together for 5 yrs now and i really want a baby but he does'nt until at least another 5 yrs, he knows i want one cos we have talked about it b4, we have th money we got our own place we both got decent jobs, both of my sisters have kids and i think they are lucky they both had kids young which to me that is a good thing cos have kids young live life later that is what i wanted to do....
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Well; it takes two and if your partner feels that he wants children eventually but not quite yet, fair enough. You have all your lives in front of you and 25/26 is a very good age to have children; neither too old nor too young. Just be glad that he does eventually want children, many women have partners who just refuse to have any at all.
15:53 Sun 22nd Nov 2009
Hi rachael88,
Sounds like the same kind of thing as with me and my boyriend! I am 22 and he is 2 and we have been together nearly 6 years. When we first met we said no talk of marriage till after 5 years and no talk of kids tll I am atleast 25! I hve found myself not wanting to wait that long but he always just kind of ignored the subject if it came up! Randomly this weekend he soundly said 'We should have kids!'.
We havent talked properly about it yet, I have pretty much said it is down to him when he is ready, but at the mo would not be a good time to think about it as he is out of work and I am likely to be made redundant on Christmas eve!
Sounds like the same kind of thing as with me and my boyriend! I am 22 and he is 2 and we have been together nearly 6 years. When we first met we said no talk of marriage till after 5 years and no talk of kids tll I am atleast 25! I hve found myself not wanting to wait that long but he always just kind of ignored the subject if it came up! Randomly this weekend he soundly said 'We should have kids!'.
We havent talked properly about it yet, I have pretty much said it is down to him when he is ready, but at the mo would not be a good time to think about it as he is out of work and I am likely to be made redundant on Christmas eve!