high libido...

[wilkesneil]

i'm marrying the woman of my dreams next week but i have this problem where i constantly get turned on by her, even at the sight of her i just get the need to kiss and cuddle her.
in the past i've only had 3 proper g/f and have never been like this and have been months without even kissing them. where has my wife to be has had many partners and has always been wild and always liked doing stuff.

the problem is that when we met things got threw around slightly and now i'm the wild one with the high libido and she's the calm one that isn't fussed about it.

is there anything i can do to try to calm myself down or do i need to let it out my system!!!

[Psybbo]

wow keep it up!

[tinkerbell23]

Does it bother her!? If not go for it!!!! X

[ummmm]

Cold showers...

Too much attention is a turn off, honest.

[pusskin]

it may not last long wilke, enjoy and make the most of it.

[wilkesneil]

its lasted a year already but this is the woman i wanted to ask out as a teenager but never did have the guts, she says it gets too much but i can't see the harm in it.
we do have sex a lot though compared to others but its like i get urges to just grab her n kiss her and she will push me off 1/2 the time

[charleybear]

im laughin now at the cold showers answer -- hehe

[tinkerbell23]

Ummm is right though it can be annoying and a total put off if its annoying her xx

[pusskin]

Actually, you saying that wilke, I think I would be inclined to push you away too.
I have to agree with Ummmm then. You come across as too eager.
Would eventually get on my nerves too

[wilkesneil]

i want her to know how much i love her by kissing her and loving her and telling her i do.
i never felt like this about anyone before ever and want her to know that she means more than the world to me.
its not like i do it every 5 mins or anything like that.

[B00]

Get on my bloody nerves too. You'd soon get slapped and told "For Christs sake, gerroff me, go sit over there!"

[tinkerbell23]

Im sure she knows already and its lovely to be told and that you feel that way....but dont smother her xx

[pusskin]

lol boo

[whiskeryron]

Mate of mine was like that, he was engaged to a real smasher & every time he kissed her goodnight he had a huge erection she broke it off.

W Ron.

[B00]

bet that hurt him Rob, nowt worse than a broken love sausage I imagine!

[B00]

*ron, not Rob.

[wilkesneil]

cheers, its worse in the week on certain days as ill get up and go to work, when i finish work i will have 10 mins before taking her to work and then its almost time for bed when i see her so i wanna let her know how much i have missed her also, when im with her all day im ok and its not as often i do it but its when idont see her its worse

[Slapshot]

Sounds like a musical......;0)

You WILL learn the happy medium, (just be a quick learner) and it will balance out, go with the flow mon ami and good luck

[Sir Alec]

Make the most of it whilst you are young. The minute I was put on blood pressure tablets, my libido halved, where it had been high before.

[jno]

you might want to pace yourself a bit here. She may start to find you clingy and high-maintenance. Some women love that; sounds as if this one is okay with it but "says it gets too much"? Couples almost always have to compromise on their libidos a bit (this usually means cold showers for the men).

Have you sat down and talked about why you're suddenly hyperactive and she suddenly isn't? tbh, this might be something you need to be clear in your own minds about.

[Cockney_si]

I've recently become single, what with one thing or another, (I think she panicked) and then I was accused of being too affectionate. I'd hate for anyone to have to go through this. I'm sure you'll be fine, sometimes in these cases it's what you say rather than do eases the risk of them feeling like they are being smothered.