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I dated a guy for 5yrs, 2mths to our wedding l caught him with a girl having sex.I told him its over, he pleaded n pleaded even my mum plead on his behalf n he promised nt to do it again ever. We got married barely 3mths after after d wedding he started having affairs, l did everything in my power to satisfy him sexually, make him happy n even sending love messages by text n letters, despite dat am aware he is cheating on me bt its all in vain,.in 2008 l gave birth to our daughter,l thot it will make him happy n he will stop since he is now a father bt l was wrong, he got worst, he starts bringing the ladies home when am nt around n take dem to our neighbour home wen l am home. As if that was nt enough, he don't take care of me or his daughter, he don't gives allowance nt even cash for home up keep, he is bossy n worst of all he starts taking vigra. My marriage will b 7yrs dis year n my daughter is 4yrs, l don't want her to grown up in a place like dis bc l get angry, upset, scare n disappointed. My family said l should forgv n stay wit him, how long will l do dat. My family said am leaving bc am beautiful n bc men r after me bt am tired of dis man called husband. Advice pls
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If you can accept this and if otherwise he is a good husband .......accept this.
If you cannot accept this status quo, then you must divorce.
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If you can accept this and if otherwise he is a good husband .......accept this.
If you cannot accept this status quo, then you must divorce.
Think about it before you "jump in"
Many relationships can work if the affair was a one off and a mistake and both partners are sincere in wanting it to work.
But your husband sounds like a louse and one who seems incapable of keeping it in his pants.
Have you thought about using two housebricks on him?
And seriously- your neighbours aid and abet him in this? Nice!
But your husband sounds like a louse and one who seems incapable of keeping it in his pants.
Have you thought about using two housebricks on him?
And seriously- your neighbours aid and abet him in this? Nice!