ex partner is threatening to empty the house

[lovesmacats]

Hi my ex partner walked out on me and my 3 children (1 is his) about 6 weeks ago. He is now threatening to empty the house of everything he put any money towards. I had everything in the house (he is not on the tenancy) before he moved in with us but we did replace the bedroom furniture together. The main things that he wants is the tv and ps3, the ps3 came with my mobile contract and my daughter plays on it. Does anyone know where i stand legally?????

[lovesmacats]

Thank you to every one that has replied, i needed peace of mind last night and have been to CAB today. He has no rights to any of the furniture/electrical goods as i have supported him in the past while he was out of work and i have been left with arrears on the rent to pay. Locks have been changed and will definatley be calling the police if he turns up here. Thank you again

[ummmm]

Good for you, stay strong x

[askyourgran]

Good for you, take care of yourself and your girls. x

[divegirl]

So pleased you came back to let us know how you are! We're not a bad bunch and are here to help... mostly ;0)

Well done for being proactive, now all you need to do is stay that way! Keep strong girl and of course keep us updated!
Just look after you and your little family for now.

Lisa xxx

[lovesmacats]

Thank you for your support Lisa, i got a lot of abuse again last night from him but it's all been logged with the police. I did mention CSA to him and strangely enough he has changed his tune for now thanks again Kate xx

[thenry]

If he is not on the tenancy agreement and he tries to come round, call the police. He will be locked up for breach of the peace.

[divegirl]

Just keep the moral high ground hun....it works wonders! Learn by my mistakes. I sunk to my ex's level too many times, still do some 11 years later [:0(] It gets you no where. If he wants to see his daughter, smile and say of course, if he shouts at you...walk away!
I'm so sorry you're going through this, I know how damn hard and soul destroying it is BUT you will, as in the words of the song, survive.
Keep smiling.

Lisa xxx

[maggiebee]

So, he owns a half share of the bedroom furniture?? Get an axe and chop it in half and give him his share! Seriously, it sounds as if you are well rid of this person from your life. Good advice has been given - speak to CAB, change locks and check out child maintenance. Good luck.