Girls Please Help !!! I Really Need Your Help?

[SimplePerson]

i like a girl. the first and the only girl i have ever liked in my life. i know we cannot be together, coz of family problems. I think she wont like me the way i like her. we are best friends though since last 2 yrs. Share everything with each other like best buddies. our families wont allow us to get married. i am
trying to get over her. but i want to tell her everything that is in my mind. atleast i want her to know what she means to me, how important she is to me. No i dont want to force her. Just let her know everything from day one. I'm thinking of writing a mail to her. I cant say this to her in-person. I just want to end everythng on a gud note.

my question is -

do you think she will get me wrong or will she starting hating me ??

Is e-mailing her wt i feel abt her a gud option??

Please help me..especialy girls :(

[Maggoty]

I like letters (yes I am a female) but if your love is a forbidden one won't there be a risk of hell breaking loose if her parents find it?

Just be clear of your feeling but don't come off like a stalker ;-)

x

[Peter Pedant]

SP - you have basically posted this before....

I have my suspicions and I think you should do nothing
and get on with the rest of your life.

[Prudie]

If you feel you have to tell her then go ahead. No-one can say how she'll feel. I've had letters like that from guys I thought of as friends and my reaction was usually Yuk but that's just me.

[woofgang]

Well I think that I would go yuk too....sorry.

[Old_Geezer]

I doubt you'll be hated but it's difficult to know what her reaction will be. And you won't know unless you let her know. I think I'd avoid the letter thing though. You need to be more open and talk to her about it.

In my experience one gets a less favourable reaction if the relationship has been going on so long that she thinks of you as an established friend, rather than someone exciting she has just met. But you never know.

Since I don't think she'll hate you I suspect the worst outcome is a rejection, she'll be a little more wary of you, and you'll be upset and waste time wondering if she'll change her mind, rather than moving on as you should.

[puddle-duck]

well you'll never know what will happen unless you try. Just be careful that it doesn't ruin the friendship that you already have with her.