My Boyfriend Cheated On Me?

[Minelle7]

We have been going out for 3 years. We are 17. He is bi. I'm straight. Everything has been great.

Or so I thought...a few days ago I was online and I got a message from a gay guy and he told me that 2 years ago he had sex with my boyfriend like a one night stand and he told me I looked stupid because my boyfriend cheated on me and that means he doesn't love me.

Of course it hurt cause he had sex with someone else. He told me he is really sorry and he we never do it again but that's what they all say. He hasn't done it since then but I don't know. This was the only time he's done this. My boyfriend doesn't still talk to him. He said he hasn't talked to him since.

I don't know what to do.. he told me he didn't mean it and that he loved me.. but I'm just so confused and upset right now. Should I break up with him? does this mean he doesn't love me? now I feel stupid :/

[Gizmonster]

I thought you were married lol:
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1383512.html

[sandyRoe]

Could well be married and also have a boyfriend.

[Canary42]

So he was 15 at the time - such "experimentation" is not unheard of, and presumably since there has been no recurrence you can safely put it all behind you both I would have thought. It certainly doesn't mean he doesn't love you, and there is NO REASON AT ALL why you should feel stupid.

[Baldric]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1383551.html

[Gizmonster]

Read the thread - it says she's 17 and they got married 3 years ago and it says he cheated on her 5 years ago ??

[-Talbot-]

We are 17.

And married 3 years.............?

[Gizmonster]

Baldric - that's the link to this thread lol :P

[Canary42]

I've just read your other question. Stop messing about, and grow up.

[maggiebee]

Methinks this is just a wind-up but apologies to Minelle if it is not. Dates just do not make sense as Gizmonster says.

[woofgang]

reported for grand stupidity

[Baldric]

So I just noticed


http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1383512.html

[Peter Pedant]

this is double post isnt it ?

now I'm confused !

[Gizmonster]

I think someone's on a wind up and we can wave goodbye to this and the other thread quite soon :)

[-Talbot-]

confused but no Bi, PP?

[DTCwordfan]

Possibly a hermaphrodite?

[maggiebee]

Possibly a nutcase DTC

[Peter Pedant]

we havent heard about the family dog or sheep

Does this mean she is a city-dweller ? certainly not in Wales anyway

I have to say I dont think teenagers having sex with each other is a suitable subject for AB- it was all such a long time ago for all of us. I refer to our teenage years of course

[woofgang]

shes gone.

[askyourgran]

Trip Trap.