Relationship

[Xxdebxxfool]

I have lived with my partner for 2years I found out October last year he has been texting and meeting as he says just for a chat to this woman but says there is nothing more? He has female friends I know about and I have no problem my issue is she's been kept a secret and I only know now because I was told by someone else? This has put a wedge between us and I feel I can't trust him anymore

[fiction-factory]

I see from your othe rpost that you have already decided to separate and you are moving out with your daughter. That should give some time for you to reflect on things and decide whether to remain separate or get back together

[Baldric]

Jordy,
See "seperation" Thread.

[Xxdebxxfool]

Your answers are exactly what I thought would be for the best as we're constantly falling out and it's a very unhappy home but to add to things he's just told me he's applied for a job the other side of the country?? Don't get it?? He says I can visit at weekends if he gets it?

[andy-hughes]

Xxde - // He says I can visit at weekends if he gets it? //

I think that's an indication of the status of your relationship.

If he has not discussed this job with you, and the potential for you moving as a family, it seems pretty clear that he sees this move as the end of your relationship.

You can try talking, but he seems to have made his intentions, and his feelings, pretty clear.

[jno]

I think you’re right not to trust him. He seems to be looking forward to you as a weekend fling. I wouldn’t take him up on it.

[ummmm]

It sounds like he's splitting up with gently.

[Nay37]

Cheating scumbag, dump him quick!!!