About A Relationship Problem

[Temp_user]

I've got a relationship problem. If anyone can help me out , Please anyone respond ? ( sorry for the bad English )

[rowanwitch]

The folk on here will need a bit more detail than that.

[Flonska]

You might need to expand on this to get a more meaningful response. Try and describe the nature of both the relationship and the problem.

[Baldric]

Without knowing what the problem is, it will be difficult to help you.

[Sqad]

if it is of a sexual nature, then you have come to the right place as I am a recognized expert on such matters.

[kvalidir]

^^^ Sqad ^^^ x

[Temp_user]

Yeah , sorry for not entering the question ... I'm new to this .

[kvalidir]

You can add it in your next answer... it's fine to put it here, now.

[Temp_user]

I'm an 16 yr old boy, still in school. I have a friend at school and he is boy too. we know each other for a long time. The problems are that I have feelings for him and I'm not sure that he is into me and being homosexual is not accepted in my country. any advice ?

[kvalidir]

If you are somewhere that being gay is illegal please be very very careful. If he gives you no sign that he is into you then be extremely careful how you suggest anything, and consider not doing anything at all at the moment but waiting until you can get yourself to a country where it isn't against the law. xx

[jim360]

Further to that, do you mean "not accepted" in the sense of being actually illegal, or do you mean that it's seriously frowned upon, but still possible?

In either case, be careful as kval says. Ultimately the only way forward will be to ask him about it, but maybe not too directly as -- if he doesn't share those feelings -- it could be awkward.

[Temp_user]

If i ask him and things go bad, I could lose him as friend. Still i'm not 100% into him, but it's growing each day. Recently I said his name while I was a sleep. My family knows that, but doesn't suspect me. Is it better if let him go and concentrate more into girls, but I also get a feeling that this could work. Chances are very low. what should i do ?

[Tilly2]

Do nothing, at the moment.

Where do you live?

[Temp_user]

Sri lanka, In asia. It's buddhist country and so am I and yet what the hell happening to me ?

[kvalidir]

If you are in Sri Lanka then there are proposals for the decriminalization of homosexuality shortly, so do nothing for now, at least if you wait until the legal aspect is addressed you will have possibly fewer issues than if you act on how you feel now. x

[Temp_user]

Many thanks to everyone who supported.... specially kvalidir , jim360 , Tilly2 .. feels good when it's told to some people so supportive.

[gingejbee]

...and I'll add that your "bad English" isn't that bad at all. In fact, it's rather good! Best wishes.

[kvalidir]

Good luck Temp User, make sure no-one can find this on your computer. Stay safe and be happy x

[snowshoe1]

HI THERE..OKAY, YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP AND YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. OKAY, WHAT KIND OF PROBLEM ARE YOU HAVING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? WITHOUT DETAILS I CAN ANSWER YOUR QUESTION.