Just write a note, saying how sorry you are that you haven’t been able to get in touch up to now. And would she like to meet you for coffee, lunch one day?
Just initiate a conversation and explain that you are sorry you haven't been much of an avuncular figure hitherto, but you'd like it if you could get to know each other better. Share some warm memories you have of your sister / her mother.
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