1. Miles needs a clean settled environment.
2. youre invalid with leg & need help
3. Mother grieving & needs distraction.
4. Husband has 1-3 worries plus house refurb.
5. Holiday wont cure above.
6. Move into ur mums with Miles to solve above.
7. Leave/divorce OH, split assets etc.
8. No sis/bro for Miles, shared upbringing, new step partners etc. Broken extended families.
Solution: move into your cmums with Miles. OH can concentrates on refurb to enjoin his family unit.
My offer still open & welfare will assist 1parent costs.