There is someone for everyone somewhere. If you don't like clubs or social gatherings,here are some ideas: go out for a walk amongst nature, a park, and take a camera to capture the flora and fauna, or just join a walking group. You will always meet someone with the same interest. Do you have a dog as many people meet their ideal person when walking their dog. Do you get to meet people at work. A friend of mine worked in a shop when her future husband came in to buy something. There was instant attachment. Go to a concert that has your kind of music or take a short coach trip somewhere. I bet you will be surprised how many contacts you make. Good luck !