I Need To Talk

[Bobbisox1]

I know I’ve been called a narcissist , an attention seeker and so on, but I’m in such pain tonight, believe me

[Redhelen72]

Oh no what happened? Share it and maybe we can help

[Sqad]

Emotionl, pain or physical pain?

[LadyCG]

Bobbi, is this to do with your brother?

Take no notice of any horrible stuff people say. I know you're a lovely, lovely person with a heart of gold.

[Bobbisox1]

Both Sqad & RH

[tiggerblue10]

What's happened Bobbi?

[Neveracrossword]

Bobbisox1, I am sorry to hear that - and don't let the skewed opinions of only a few ABers get in the way. There are plenty of helpful, supportive ABers!

[pastafreak]

There are always people willing to listen and help Bobbi.

[LadyCG]

Bobbi, if you need to talk, you can ring me right now. Think long and hard before you put anything on here.

[Sqad]

Unless you open up on both fields, we cannot help.

Narcisist? yes you have certain traits of this psychological condition, but no big deal.

[Bobbisox1]

No, It’s my son, I have a son who I’ve been estranged to for many years, he’s stubborn and so am I, his daughter ( my granddaughter ) was found dead this morning , he’s in bits and contacted me, it’s bittersweet that we are in contact but how awful for it to be this way

[Redhelen72]

I am sorry to hear that may your granddaughter rest in peace

[LadyCG]

Good lord, Bobbi, I'm so sorry. How awful.

xx

[Sqad]

You had better ring LadyC for an unbiased and valuable advice, as we on AB are not going to get the full and honest appraisal.

[Bobbisox1]

I don’t care anymore Lcg, I need to put this in writing, I need to talk to people outside of the family,

[Redhelen72]

When was the last time you saw your granddaughter?

[Bobbisox1]

Sqad, I want to write it down and I don’t care what people think of me for doing that !

[Bobbisox1]

It was 30 years ago RH , they’re not sure if it was murder or drugs

[Sqad]

O,K..bobbie.

[pastafreak]

I'm so, so sorry Bobbi. This must be such a shock to you, your son, and the rest of your family.

[burlyshirley1]

Thinking of you Bobbs, as you know xx