I Need To Talk

[Bobbisox1]

I know I’ve been called a narcissist , an attention seeker and so on, but I’m in such pain tonight, believe me

[rockyracoon]

I don’t think you come across as a narcissist. My feelings are that you are a very amiable, chatty soul.
That being said, don’t worry about what others think of you, you have enough to worry about at the moment.

[MissTerious]

So sorry Bobbi. A horrible thing to happen, but it's brought your son back into your life which is a blessing.

[LadyCG]

Bobbi, you are not narcissistic. Take no notice of any nasty comments. I've had my fair share on here and honestly it's just water of a duck's back.

As you have evidenced in your post this evening there are more important things in life than the skewed views of a few bitter internet trolls.

Just be there for your son but make sure your family are there for you too as you will be grieving yourself.

[Bobbisox1]

Thank you all, even RH ( sorry not meaning to be flippant there) but dear God is being unrelenting worth it x ( me I mean )

[zylaphone]

Sorry, sorry for your loss. It’s good to talk xx

[Bobbisox1]

I had nowhere else to turn Zyla

[zylaphone]

You do know xx

[Redhelen72]

I know it can be easier to find comfort from strangers but what about your husband and family- can they not help?

[gulliver1]

Sorry to hear the Bad news Bobbisox .
My thoughts are with you.

[choux]

Bobbisox, I am sorry for your loss, may your granddaughter R.I.P.

[Bobbisox1]

Bill has been a brick in all this ,he’s my rock

[Maydup]

What awful news Bobbie. It’s hard for me to process or understand how things got so bad to have been estranged from a son. If you’ve been estranged is it now sorrow for the lost years, or guilt, or sorrow for the death? How would you describe your pain Bobbie?

[tiggerblue10]

I don't think you're narcissistic at all, Bobbi. I feel that you wear your heart on your sleeve which isn't a bad thing x

[-SharonA-]

What sad news Bobbi. I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad your son is back in your life & bridges can be mended in this time of grief.

[Bobbisox1]

I feel numb Maydup, can’t describe it any other way , in as much as I don’t care what people see me as , I’m just numb

[Old_Geezer]

I wish you and your family find the strength needed to cope with this tragedy. Sorry to hear.

[Bobbisox1]

I’ve just spoken in depth with my son and hopefully through tragedy we’ve crossed that bridge, thank you my AB family it helps to step outside what’s going on

[jennyjoan]

sometimes even when you are very close to a sibling, husband, wife you can't get it all out - in case you are upsetting that other person.

I am sorry to hear your very sad news Bobbs and words cannot describe the pain in your heart as it would be a mixture,

the loss of your granddaughter in horrific circumstances or the get together of your son. Who knows.

I just hope the heartbreak gets a little easy for you and you get a little peace.

[Bobbisox1]

Thank you JJ X

[zylaphone]

So glad you have spoken to your son, hopefully you can help each other and your families