How Can I Deal With The Embarrassment?

[lolitasteward]

Happy new year!

I'm a 23-year-old female. During a house party I smoked weed and drank alcohol. Passed out and *** in my pants and vomited on the floor. The people around me unintentionally lifted my dress and saw that I haven't shaved. Some of them were my classmates and some of them didn't know me at all. It was so embarrassing I can't forgive myself.

[bednobs]

*Chortlesplutters* that you are more embarrassed about having hair where you are supposed to have it than peeing (?) your pantsand passing out

[Neveracrossword]

Use your acting experience to deal with the embarrassment, then make sure you never leave the house without shaving. 

[Barsel]

What was the question?

[lolitasteward]

Bednobs/ I'm more embarrassed about peeing my pants of course. It was Christmas eve and I ruined it for everyone.

[Neveracrossword]

In the title...

[Barsel]

Oh I see it now. Well you can't deal with it now, 'cos it's too late.

[Barsel]

To make sure it doesn't happen again, make sure you're wearing incontinence pants although that would probably be even more embarrassing.

[Hopkirk]

How do you know? Did they tell you?

[lolitasteward]

Hopkirk/

I woke up realising I'm all wet and stinky 

[Canary42]

Lots of lasses don't shave.  So what's the embarrassment ?

[andy-hughes]

What's done is done, you can't change what has happened, only how you deal with it.

You can beat yourself up on a daily basis, or you can apologise where necessary,  and move on.

Neither option makes any difference to what happened. But the second one stops weeks of anguish.

Trust me, everyone else will forget this and move on. You need to do the same.

It's all very fresh and humiliating now, but as days pass, you will assimilate it into your experience of life, and get over it.

Try not to dwell on it if you can, people make mistakes,  that's why they put rubbers on the ends of pencils.

Hope you feel better soon, and trust me, you will.

[Peter Pedant]

in the circles in wh I moved, no one really worried about this sort of thing. Look forward to the next party

[pastafreak]

Oh give it a rest yannafymmi. Not anything like abbey, which you'd know if you paid attention.

Why oh why do certain people think every unusual poster is poor abbey?

[Tuvok]

Don't do drink or drugs.

[Barsel]

It bothers me more that //The people around me unintentionally lifted my dress and saw that I haven't shaved//

How many people, how unintentionally and how close did they look?

[Sam1960]

I noticed that earlier Barsel, but didn't comment.

How can you unintentionally lift someones dress  !!

[douglas9401]

Maybe someone had a garden rake under one arm and it caught the hem when the person turned around.

The OP may also be a fan of the '70s.

[bednobs]

i am ow wondering just how hairy your la la is - if you had knickers on, how could anyone see you state of shavedness anyway?

[douglas9401]

You must remember spider legs from the old days, bednobs.

And I always thought it was 'foo-foo'.