Do You Think He Has Gone Off Me?

[abbeylee90]

I said I'd make a new thread earlier so like I explained in my other one. This guy I went on a date with 2 weeks ago and as I explained he said he wanted a 2nd we were meant to go out last Friday but he cancelled as he has a cold. He said on Sunday he would let me know if he wants to go out this week but said yesterday he has a cold but also hasn't been messaging me in the morning like he normally would 

[bednobs]

"I will cease posting now on her threads"

i would be so sure about that.  There was another poster who said exactly the same thing (at least six times!) yet couldnt help himself.  Maybe you will find you are the same

[MargoTester]

It is possible to have a cold for 2 weeks Abbey. There is a particularly virulent one going around at the moment with a bad cough, I know I've had it since just after Christmas!

[Spartypuss]

Plenty more fish in the sea miss Lee

[ABSpareEditor]

This thread has nothing to do with GCSE results or grammar. Please keep to the topic at hand. 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, at 11.11 today you said 'he hasn't read my Snapchat which I sent last night'. No-one knows - apart from the guy! - whether this means he was still unwell and not even looking at messages, or whether he's not interested enough to even look at what you're sending him. But there's no point in searching for any significance, you should just see what happens - or doesn't happen - over the next day or so.

PS Your suggested message, suggested at 07.44, smacks a little of ... desperation, neediness. 

[pastafreak]

Never...do you mean the comment at 01:44?

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks, Pasta - yes, I did! 

[abbeylee90]

Interview got cancelled and going to reschedule for later.

Yes I've stopped messaging him now till he replies 

[abbeylee90]

Reschedule end of the week I meant 

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks, Abbey. Do you mean next week for the interview? There's only tomorrow left in this one!

Glad to hear you're just going to wait and see if anything happens with one-date guy.

[abbeylee90]

Yes and been offered an interview elsewhere on 14th.

Yes I'll move on unless he asks me on a 2nd date 

[abbeylee90]

Well he said he playing snooker with his grandad tomorrow 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, 'he said he playing snooker with his grandad tomorrow' - does that mean he's got in touch recently?  If so, you can see that you wasted a lot of time worrying unnecessarily! 

[pastafreak]

Abbey, have you ever considered being 'just' friends with this young man...or any other for that matter? Sometimes that's what leads to a more permanent relationship...friends then lovers. To just cut someone off may mean missing out.

[abbeylee90]

Yeah just keep it at that we'll see if he does ask me to go out

[Rosie29]

That's such a helpful reply Pasta - I do agree.  Friendship and respect coming first is so important.   

[abbeylee90]

He's speaking to me about family so guess it a good sign

[Hazlinny]

When did he get in touch, Abbey?  His cold must be better.