Do You Think He Has Gone Off Me?

[abbeylee90]

I said I'd make a new thread earlier so like I explained in my other one. This guy I went on a date with 2 weeks ago and as I explained he said he wanted a 2nd we were meant to go out last Friday but he cancelled as he has a cold. He said on Sunday he would let me know if he wants to go out this week but said yesterday he has a cold but also hasn't been messaging me in the morning like he normally would 

[abbeylee90]

Today we been talking everyday 

[Hazlinny]

I rather thought you were complaining that you hadn't heard from him????

[abbeylee90]

No like not being the same with me or making an effort to go out

[Redhelen72]

I am really confused prior to this thread you said he had not messaged you and in the question you state he has messaged you. Now you say he has talked to you every day?

 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you're confusing us - again! One of your posts said the guy hadn't even opened your Snapchat message, now you're saying you 'been talking every day'. What were you worrying about, what made you want to ask if we (a random bunch of strangers) thought he'd gone off you?

[scorpiojo]

You said you'd not heard from him??

[abbeylee90]

No he don't open my message for hours but goes on pof he use to message me good morning and good night but hasn't all week 

[abbeylee90]

He messaged me briefly today 

[Hazlinny]

08.40  Knowing nothing about the workings of POF, how do you know he goes on it?  Can you explain?

[scorpiojo]

So he has been messaging you, and you have been messaging him, despite saying you weren't? 

[abbeylee90]

He just wasn't messaging in morning like he normally would and still not rearranged a 2nd date

[andres]

[email protected] Hazlinny asked you a question. I was wondering the same. How do you know that he has gone onto Pof?

[abbeylee90]

Sorry I might miss some qs when there is so many. Because you can when someone is active or how long ago they were on there. Do I tell him there no point staying in contact and we not going on 2nd date

[Pete65]

What is Pof?

[bednobs]

plenty of fish

[elliemay1]

If he doesn't get back to you just ignore him, you've no need to contact him any further

[abbeylee90]

We are talking just made no plans to meet up again

[Redhelen72]

So this whole question was pointless, to go 'off' you there would have to have been an intention to have a relationship 

[Pete65]

Thank you, Bednobs.

I was thinking P&O Ferries!

[Hazlinny]

Pete/  Abbey's threads can sometimes turn into long cruises so maybe you were not far off the mark😄