Do You Think He Has Gone Off Me?

[abbeylee90]

I said I'd make a new thread earlier so like I explained in my other one. This guy I went on a date with 2 weeks ago and as I explained he said he wanted a 2nd we were meant to go out last Friday but he cancelled as he has a cold. He said on Sunday he would let me know if he wants to go out this week but said yesterday he has a cold but also hasn't been messaging me in the morning like he normally would 

[Countrylover]

I'd not heard of a bottomless brunch either.  

[Redhelen72]

What would your response have been Abbey if someone had said yes he has 'gone off you' ?

[abbeylee90]

I'm still open to talk to other guys 

[Moorea7]

I think you said he still goes on POF - are you still talking to other guys on there?  Surely you can meet someone in your home town or maybe not😊

[abbeylee90]

Well yes and no through maybe in a new job or my voluntary work.

[abbeylee90]

Just started talking to someone on there 

[bluefortress]

Abbey is this the same guy as in your other post? 
 

Do you find that you get very attached to people? It sounds like you have a lot of fear and so are forever analysing situations. 
 

Even if you do lose it, although it will feel like it for a while, it really won't be the end of the world. 

[bluefortress]

* even if you do lose him sorry

[abbeylee90]

Yes same guy.

Like I said I'm still open to others

[1ozzy]

🥱

[abbeylee90]

Haven't spoken to me today 

[newmodarmy]

I'd be very surprised if he was still interested. He may have been put off by your being overseen. 

Maybe you'll find someone else ortale things further with the new guy on POF.

You're obviously an attractive and well presented girl Abbey- do you not get approached by guys (or girls) when you're out watching rugby  or socialising or at work or the dogs home ( excluding the older man with hi viz issues)?

[newmodarmy]

 My 'overSEEN' should have said 'over KEEN'

[abbeylee90]

I haven't messaged him first for a while just wonder why he not rearranging the date he cancelled.

What you meant don't get approached by people when out?

I blocked that guy he got to much 

[Redhelen72]

I don't know what to believe anymore, you said that you had not heard from him and then said he was messaging all the time.

[abbeylee90]

He was but I haven't heard from him today 

[newmodarmy]

 I meant do you not get guys trying to chat you up when you're out.  Or at work?

[abbeylee90]

Sometimes out depends who I'm with and it's all girls at work 

[lankeela]

Abbey you have only had one date with this guy - don't expect the level of contact you would have with a long term partner. Its a casual relationship at this stage so don't put him off by expecting him to be at your beck and call every day.  If he had gone off you he wouldn't keep in touch at all.  

[abbeylee90]

Good answer