Do I Message Him Or Let Him Message Me?

[abbeylee90]

I'm meant to be going with guy I went on a date with on Saturday tonight do I message him if I don't hear from him or let him message me?

[naomi24]

If you like the new guy I think you should give that a chance.  If it doesn't work out you can always go back on plenty of fish.

[abbeylee90]

Ok thanks need to tell him I work at selco at some point.

[renegadefm]

If he likes you he would have messaged by now, I know I would have. 

 

 

[naomi24]

Renegadefm, he has messaged her.

[bednobs]

So in two dates there wasn't even any discussion about what you to do for a living?

[scorpiojo]

Why haven't you told him? Where does he think you work?

[abbeylee90]

In my previous job incase it didn't work out.

[newmodarmy]

But that doesn't make sense- it's not as if you could just go straight back to the laundry if the Selco one didn't work out. You're making a rod for your own back. If you aren't honest with him how can you expect him to be honest with you?

[scorpiojo]

//In my previous job incase it didn't work out.//

 

Why did you lie to him?

[cashier]

Why do you always assume it's not going to work out? I know you said you were exhausted after two full days, now you have done a week how do you feel? You can't leave just because you don't like the shifts you've been given.

[abbeylee90]

Well if he wants to see me again I'll mention selco 

[abbeylee90]

I didn't say I was leaving I meant them not liking me like last one

[abbeylee90]

Is it also bad my mum don't know about my date?

[scorpiojo]

Abbey, why don't you just stop lying? You're just making things worse for yourself.

[abbeylee90]

I know I am. Sorry I probably asked before when I tell my mum and she asks why I left what shall i say?

[Impatiens]

Abbey, for goodness sake start telling people the truth.  It's so much less stressful!

[Dizmo]

Abbey, why did you leave your last job?

Apologies if this has been asked before, I haven't read through every thread, yet.

[newmodarmy]

Dizmo- it was only a part time role 16-17 hours over 3 days but Abbey was pretending to her mum she was working full time so was going out dressed for work on 2 days and hanging around until home time

[scorpiojo]

The truth, for once.

[scorpiojo]

...but I think Abbey was doing the same thing when the care home cut her hours,and she didn't tell her mum.