How Do I Tell This Guy About My Condition

[abbeylee90]

As I've said I've jad seizures in the past and I'm abit weary telling this guy. He has asked me if I want to stay at his soon.

[scorpiojo]

Do they really judge you, Abbey, or just think you should have tried harder in whatever job, and put the job first, not your social life?

[barry1010]

A woman in her 30s doesn't need to explain to her mother, just show the common courtesy of letting her know she won't be home that night.

[ynnafymmi]

By the way Abbey how are your fork-lift driving courses going?Have you told your trainers about these"seizures"?

[Prudie]

So you can't tell your mother or the rest of your family about job changes etc because they'll judge you but you'll say something about being away for the night with some guy you've only just met??

[douglas9401]

On Prudie! Such judgementarialism. ☺

[abbeylee90]

I won't tell them about the guy 

[Clementino]

So you have decided to lie again, or omit the truth !

[scorpiojo]

🤦 Abbey, you'll just make things worse by lying about something else.

[abbeylee90]

I will if I get with him

[ynnafymmi]

How did your fork-lift driving courses go Abbey?I was always looking for an update.

[abbeylee90]

I haven't been

[ynnafymmi]

"I havent been"....This was a big thing for you at one time Abbey.Are you still taking these fork-lift drivers courses or not ?Just asking for a friend.

[abbeylee90]

Maybe in a few months 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, how did you tell your previous partner(s) about your condition?  

[abbeylee90]

Came into conversation about a condition last guy u dated had that why I told him

[abbeylee90]

Think it to soon to stay at his?

[naomi24]

Do you think it's too soon?

[Rosetta]

Its way too soon "to stay at his". You need to get to know him a lot more before you make that sort of decision IMHO 

[abbeylee90]

That why I'm asking naomi I'm not sure 

[abbeylee90]

And is it wrong that I see he still goes on pof