Is It Wrong That Me And My Work Colleuge Held Hands When Walking To The Pub Together He's Married

[abbeylee90]

We are very good friends but meant nothing to me. It was his leaving do I messaged him after I got home to make sure he got home ok.

[DDIL]

Sorry but you have sunk so low in my estimation that I didn't even think it was possible 

[abbeylee90]

He held mine so we didn't all get lost I think but that. He only got my number incase a vacancy comes up in his wife's place.

[DDIL]

Yeah right

[abbeylee90]

He did ask when I told him I was looking for a new job.

[Prudie]

So would I, I'm sure his wife would think it wrong. There is also a possibility this guy has worked you out and will take a chance.

[abbeylee90]

He didn't try anything with me.

[DDIL]

If you got a job with his wife would you tell her you spent the evening holding hands with her husband?

[calmck]

Block his number now, before he calls, so we don't get asked what you should do when he calls

[abbeylee90]

No I'm not wasn't all night.

He won't call and I haven't heard from him today.

[jackthehat]

Well, regardless of the rights and wrongs of you holding his hand he, as a married man, shouldn't have been holding yours.

If my wife had been holding somone's hand, I wouldn't be having a word with anyone except my wife!

[douglas9401]

Isn't this what novelists might call an escalation?

Next episode, 'check in my trouser pocket for change.'

[Auntypoll]

Leave married men alone! If he has problems with his wife it's nothing to do with you . Good god are you that naive you've never heard the excuse 'my wife doesn't understand me' ?

[Clementino]

I don't know why  you felt it necessary to message him asking if he got home OK.  That is flirting in my view 

[abbeylee90]

That's the last thing on my mind plus he got kids I wouldn't even go for a single man with kids.

Yeah I do that with all my friends.

[jourdain2]

Yes it is wrong.  Have you  got that?  For some reason type has gone into bold italics and I can't shift it.  Help!

 

 

 

[Auntypoll]

Why did you hold his hand? Please don't say it's in case you got lost you were with 6 other people and we are not thick.

[Canary42]

Quite right Auntypoll. we are not thick !

[abbeylee90]

I don't know why he held my hand.

We did loose 2 who we didn't know they left until they were on thr train.

[Auntypoll]

Ok why did you LET him hold your hand? 

[abbeylee90]

Was awkward knowing what to say. We are just friends.