Is It Wrong That Me And My Work Colleuge Held Hands When Walking To The Pub Together He's Married

[abbeylee90]

We are very good friends but meant nothing to me. It was his leaving do I messaged him after I got home to make sure he got home ok.

[Peter Pedant]

what is  done is  done -  get on with next weeks gaffes, texts and queries

[Captain2]

Whether it's right or wrong, soesn't matter. It happened, forget about it. Stop making problems for yourself.

[abbeylee90]

I'm just asking for any future reference.

[Captain2]

^^^ Pretty much snap there, PP.

[curlyfries81]

Why were you holding hands? How do you think his wife might feel about that? 

[DDIL]

Is this the same work colleague that you have flirted with before?

Yes it's wrong, you don't know him that well, he's married and I am sure his wife would be miffed.

[abbeylee90]

Haven't flirted with him just very close.

That what I thought.

His wife normally doesn't let him out apparently.

[DDIL]

Ahhh the wife doesn't let me out/doesn't understand me story!

c'mon Abbey you are not that daft to believe that it's acceptable to hold a married man's hand?

You have known him 5 months and barely work with him!

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, is this the guy you asked about before, wondering if you had a 'close bond'? 

[abbeylee90]

His wife doesn't let him out.

There's were like 8 of us.

[abbeylee90]

Yes but there's others i have a close bond with aswell.

[abbeylee90]

I been told that by other people.

I only wore green blouse not tarty.

[Prudie]

Not really getting the answers you expected are you. Why wasn't his wife at the leaving do?

[abbeylee90]

Because it's a work do and selco were paying for thr drinks.

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks, Abbey. When you asked the the question (Do we have a close bond?), I got the impression that you were hoping we'd all say 'yes, there's obviously more than just a good working relationship'! I've never been tempted to hold hands with any colleagues, especially married ones.

[DDIL]

If I ever found out that my husband held a girls hand whilst out on the lash I would hunt her down!

[Canary42]

Yes, it is wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong .

[Barmaid]

Holding hands is quite an intimate thing.  Whilst you say that he (or holding hands) meant nothing to you, you clearly thought about it enough to ask the question.

Wrong or not, it has already happened.  Just make sure it does not happen again.