Do I Message The Group?

[abbeylee90]

This friend I was on about that didn't invite me to her wedding and hen I went to. Do I message them and ask if they want to do something before chrsitmas?

[bookbinder]

No. Keep your distance and wait for the friend to make the next move.

[MargoTester]

How on earth would we know, that's entirely up to you

[abbeylee90]

I've explained about her in another thread.

[Hazlinny]

Your own decision but, due to recent unpleasantness, maybe better not to suggest a Xmas outing

 

 

[naomi24]

She's married now so likely not going out so much with mates.  You gave other friends, don't you?

[naomi24]

Have not 'gave'.

[elliemay1]

No, don't message them, let them get in touch first 

[DDIL]

Personally I wouldn't.

 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, does it have to be messaging 'the group', can't you just get in touch with friends individually (ie friends that DO bother with you)?

Oh, and it's maybe getting  a bit late now to do things 'before Christmas' - there's not a lot of time left!

[Karamia]

Did all the other friends in the group chat get invited to this girls wedding ? 

If you are only one who wasn't invited then I would message the friends you want to meet up with privately 1-1 and see if they answer with suggestions for a meet up.

[Madgeorge]

Simple answer..........No!

There, made a decision for you! Solves your dilemma.

Stop winding people up!

[jourdain2]

It's a 'No' from me as well.

[renegadefm]

The fact she didn't invite you to her wedding speaks volumes to me. Shes obviously unfriending you for reasons non of us on here could even vaguely guess. 

I would stear clear and if she contacts you then thats up to her. 

[douglas9401]

No, the poor woman may be in the middle of trying to get pregnant and your communications will be a distraction leading to unneccessary friction causing irritation, chafing even.