brown eyes are usually dominant if both parents carry a brown gene. This brown gene can be recessive in both parents and still produce a brown eyed baby, as is the case with nox.
However, if one parent has a brown and blue and the other parent has too blue only with no brown or green anywhere in their genetic make up (thrown back to i thnk 5 generations) then the quantity of similar genes will be dominant, not the colour. So, for example, I have a brown and blue gene, my eyes are very dark brown, almost black. My husband has two blues, his grandparents all had blue eyes, etc, all of our children have pale blue eyes. Obviously, I blame my mother.
So, it is not as simple as your exmotherinlaw insisted. It is not only colour which determines dominantion.
To complicate matters further, My sister has eyes the same as me (obviously) her husband has brown eyes and one brown and one blue gene. One of her children is brown eyed with quite tawny skin; the other two look like they came from scandinavia with white hair, pale blue eyes and milk coloured skin.....? what is all that about?
I think brown is only dominant as a rule when it refers to powder paint.
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