Mother's temper in court..

[$TheBest$]

I have been in placement for 2 years and 4 months. I am finally getting my stuff together. I ma on a chins and my mom trusts me.. What do I do when she wont agree with anything they say??? and wont listen...

[Postdog]

And in English you are saying?

[sammy snake]

What the heck does 'I ma on a chins..' mean?

How old are you? When you say placement do you mean care? What are you on about?

[banned-dot]

I am only a child????? maybe????

[$TheBest$]

It means.. Child in need of services.. It is something they put your kid on and then the state has ultamate control whether you like it or not.. I have learned alot.. I am just like my mom. I have changed so much and so has she.. I just don't know what to do when she gets so worked up about the things she can't control.. Can you please help me.. I would like to hear what you have to say becasue more opinions would help try to make things better.

[$TheBest$]

Iam 15 teen years old.. Placement is like a place where they put kids and take them out of the home for there own behaviors not the parents.. Now they are seeing it wasnt just me it was also my mom.. Me stepping in her foot steps got me here. I live at The Davenport School, NFI north, NAFI programs..

[taichiperson]

I take it you are in the US? This is mainly a British site (.co.uk rather than .com) so you may not find the answers you want.
And what do you mean when you say your mother won't agree with anything they say - who are they and who isn't she listening to? Do you know what kind of problems she has - is it a mental health issue? You do sound as if you need help, but it is hard to understand what you are asking.

[$TheBest$]

she has bipolar disorder. I am in the us and "they" are in the court system. The state.

this country says its a free country but it is not.. There are so many communists

[taichiperson]

Do you have anyone you can talk to - a friend, relative or someone in the court system? I'm sure you should be able to find someone who could help. Being in the UK I don't know how the system would work for you so can't give any specific advice. We do sometimes get people on here posting from the US, but they obviously haven't found your question. It must be frightening for you to see your mother losing control - try to stay calm yourself and not get drawn in, it will help her also.

[sense4all]

see if you can find what you are looking for here!

http://www.lawforkids.org/index.cfm

Is nfl Newfoundland and Labrador in Canada?

here is a yahoo support group where ithers in a similar position may be able to advise you

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bipolar_l ovedones/

[mycats]

ok you have had a bad time obviously.
I was in care (same thing as a placement I think?) with a foster mum and it really made all the difference in my life.
you're mum is not well and while it must be hard and frustrating for you, you should remember that.
what is she not agreeing/complying with?

[$TheBest$]

tHAT i CANT GO HOME AND THEY USE visits as a consequence. like taking weekends away from me for stupid reasons.