kids fighting

[sleepyj]

what is the best way to stop my boys fighting one is 14 and other 17 they really fight most of the time ..drives me mad .! in the car in the house they cant walk past each other with out one hitting the other ...

[sleepyj]

got worse as they have got older ...they have full nasty fights now ,,which i really hate ..my youngest has adhd so he is a wind up ..this is a mad house !!! oh well both be leaving home in few years lol

[annie0000]

That sounds tough sleepy - is there a father anywhere that could knock some sense into them - in the nicest possible way of course ;0).

Maybe they need more exercise to tire them out - a bit like toddlers really, keep them fed, watered and exercised and it keeps them out of trouble.

[afcjan]

hi sleepyj

as the mum of two boys I sympathise. I think it is fairly normal behaviour even tho it drives you mad. good luck, just remember dont get in the middle as I did once and ended up getting hurt.

they were both very sorry after too.

i bet you find they are quite loyal to each other too when they are not around each other.

[sleepyj]

thanks everyone for your answers ..just hope both stop it asap ..only can live in hope !!