I'd be a miss if I'd never married.. now I'm divorced I'm in limbo. I hate Ms.. everyone thinks I'm gay, or into women's lib, and I find myself announcing, "I'm divorced!"
but I don't want to be Mrs (whatever our name is) because I'm not married to Mr (whatever our name is).
I'm a Mrs... but that is down to sheer laziness on my part... I couldn't be bothered to change all my stuff when I got divorced (errr....like over 20 years ago!). Anyway, I was proud to take my father-in-law's surname - he was a wonderful guy and I greatly admired him, plus it was a heck of a lot better than my maiden name !
Ms was invented in the early 70s precisely to solve this dilemma: so you could give yourself a title without telling the world whether you had a husband or not.
Miss sounds so much nicer than Ms (which sounds like a Mosquito buzzing). Why can't all ladies be called Miss like also men are called Mr whether they are married or not. Having two words for ladies is just sexist and pointless.
When I was single I was Miss, when married Mrs. It seems that Ms is used only by single people. I think we should all be Mrs...or men should be Master when unmarried and Mr when married.