Sad Mother's Day

[Velvetee]

Just would like to let some of the Abers I swap questions and answers with, who knew of my 83 year old mum, that she sadly passed away yesterday afternoon on Mother's Day.

We got an unexpected call from A&E, whilst out with my Fiance's mother, to say we needed to get there. I knew she'd gone when they said they were trying to resuscitate her, but there was no cardiac output.

I'd only spoken to her earlier in the day, when she told me she was fine and that her Tesco shopping had just been delivered. I'm especially sad she won't be there for my wedding in April and will never get to meet my baby, when he's born in June.

Treasure every moment with your loved ones, the years fly by so quickly.

Regards x

[novalis]

My most sincere condolences. I can only echo your sentiments about treasuring every moment with loved ones.

[Velvetee]

Thank you Novalis.

[cruella]

Velvetee, I am so sorry for your loss. That was a double whammy, especially on Mothers Day.
I can imagine how you are feeling.
The only upside of this, you know she did not suffer for a while through illness.
My thoughts are with you at this sad time. xxx

[Velvetee]

Thanks, that's so kind Cruella.

[puddicat]

My darling velvet keep strong, know that you loved ure mum,betcha she would have loved to be there for youre new baby, thinking of youxxxv

[CrazyCathy]

Oh Velvetee sorry to hear about your mum. there's nothing else I can say.

I'm sure she'll be looking down on your wedding day and on the day your son is born.

Take care

[tazmac25]

Hi Velvetee

sorry to hear of your loss
No other words really

My thoughts are with you
Tazmac25

[Picky]

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news Velvetee. You take care of yourself and that little baby too xxxx

[puddicat]

remember you got a hard time from said big boys on here for speaking up against the numpties,they should be ashamed!!!

[pastafreak]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss,Velvetee. Just remember that she will always be with you......I felt the presence of my mum next to me for ages after she died.

[sir.prize]

Velvetee. My thoughts are with you at this time.

Mothers fill such a special place in our hearts! She has left, but remember she is watching down on you now.

Many times after my own Mother passed on, she often found ways of showing up in my life, and still does. I am sure your Mum will do the same; and maybe our Mums will meet each other in heaven.

It is easy to say, but equally true, that after the pain eases for you; the things you will remember are all the good times you shared with her. When you think of the positive things in her life, dealing with her loss may be a little easier.

She would want you to be happy, not sad or depressed. No one can take away from you the love and many happy memories of Mum.

I will keep you in my prayers.

[puddicat]

pasta have a word with your so called friends ok!!

[sara3]

I'm sorry for your loss, Velvetee. make sure you look after yourself and your baby bump at this sad time x

[redcrx]

Im so sorry to hear that velvet.
My thoughts are with you x

[Velvetee]

Thanks everyone for your kind messages. It's nice to know there are some genuinely nice people on here. Your words of sympathy really do help.

Thanks x

[cruella]

Velvetee,
Just make sure you look after that baby. I am sure your Mum is looking down on you. Bless. xxx

[puddicat]

This is for legs and knobs you are plain nasty,this lovely lady never ever gave grief, always informative and helpful, when needed , all she said that she was fed up with the nastiness on this site and got slaughtered!!!

[legendis.god]

Sory about your mother.
We disagree on most things but that is internet and not reality like your mother.

And please accept my apology for puddicats bizarre postings in this thread regarding me and knobby.


I see that as a desecration of your thread and will have no part in her ranting here .

Again sad news for you.

Leg.

[Postdog]

Now this, as opposed to something else, actually brought a (genuine) tear to my eye.

Words aren't enough.

[poltergeist]

Hi Velvetee this is kitesurfer/gravy etc...

my mum also died yesterday in Sri Lanka from cancer. i thought it was bizaar enough it happened on mothers. the bad thing for me is that i was only going to see her on Wednesday! anyway sorry