Sad Mother's Day

[Velvetee]

Just would like to let some of the Abers I swap questions and answers with, who knew of my 83 year old mum, that she sadly passed away yesterday afternoon on Mother's Day.

We got an unexpected call from A&E, whilst out with my Fiance's mother, to say we needed to get there. I knew she'd gone when they said they were trying to resuscitate her, but there was no cardiac output.

I'd only spoken to her earlier in the day, when she told me she was fine and that her Tesco shopping had just been delivered. I'm especially sad she won't be there for my wedding in April and will never get to meet my baby, when he's born in June.

Treasure every moment with your loved ones, the years fly by so quickly.

Regards x

[sara3]

poltergeist (or whoever you are this week!), I'm sorry for your loss too. hope you're okay x

[wolf63]

I am sorry to hear about the loss of your mother.

My mum died in 1996 before my brother married and had children. All she ever wanted was to be a granny. She was 58 years old.

I am also sorry to hear about Gravy's mother.

For almost everybody a mother is a constant in your life and we don't always full appreciate that until it is too late.

[cazzz1975]

I am sorry to hear that velvetee and gravy, my thoughts are with you both xx

[rosetta2]

I'm sorry to hear your sad news Velvetee. You mum will be with you forever in your memories

Gravy, I am sorry to hear of your loss too.

[legendis.god]

gravy


call anytime mate



take care

[CrazyCathy]

Poltergeist sorry for your loss too

[~Wingnut~]

Oh Velvetee I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, your baby will have a very special angel watching over him when he's born and you all.

I'm also sorry to hear about your loss too Gravy, it's all so very sad and my heart goes out to you.

xxxxxxxx

[lil123]

My thoughts are with you at this sad time xx
You are so right we need to treasure every moment we can xx

[Velvetee]

Thanks Poltergeist. I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mother too and I know what you are going through. It is a very sad time and that bit harder because they died on Mother's Day. I was planning to visit my mum tomorrow.

[ruthann58]

velvetee so sorry to hear of your sad loss your, mum will always be with you and will be there to see all the special times in your life xxx

[shaking]

Please accept my condolences Velvetee, I lost my mum only 5 weeks ago and the pain is still with me. Some words were said to me that I will always remember and I hope they will bring you some comfort too.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal but love leaves a memory that no one can steal"

[pastafreak]

For gravy-i too am sad to hear of your loss. Again.....velvetee and gravy-please accept my condolences.

[Velvetee]

Thanks Pasta and Shaking.

I do recall when your mum went into a home Shaking and you were feeling so bad about it. Thanks for your message, time will heal and I am happy that I had her in my life for 40 years, so many people don't have that privilage. I hope you are coping with your loss and I'm sure you too have the happy loving memories of your mother.

[Charisse]

My sympathies to you both, and I hope that you take comfort from the support of the users on this website at what must be a most truly heartbreaking and painful time.

Charisse

[Kleiber]

Velvetee, I'm so sorry to hear about your Mum. My dear Mum died 25 years ago, on the Friday before Mother's Day. I had her card all ready to pop round to her and then I got a phone call....
For a few years, Mother's day was a sad time for me, but then I had K. Jnr and it became a happy time again. You have your baby to look forward to and I'm sure that Mother's Day will soon be a happy day for you, too. And it will be filled with happy memories of your Mum. She'll always be with you and your family. God bless.
Gravy, my sincere condolences to you, too. Love, K xxx

[brenda]

Velvetee and Poltergeist, my sincere condolences to you both. Try if you can to think of the good times , and if you want to cry, then do it .
Sincere regards
Brenda xx

[shaking]

Yes I am slowly coming out of the fog Velvetee but it is a slow process. I derived a great deal of comfort from fellow ABs and I am sure they stopped me from cracking up. There are a lot of genuine people on here who feel for you and no one knows of the heartache until they have gone through it. You have your baby to look forward to which must be wonderful so take care of yourself and be strong.

[Prudentia]

Just remember the good times. Love at this time, Prudentia, xxx

[christine847]

Velvetee,
So sorry to hear the news,we were only chatting last week about her.
my thoughts are with you

Chrissy xx