My best friend had sex with younger brother

[kailee4575]

Yesterday me and my FORMER best friend had a massive argument she admitted that she'd had sex with my 14 year old brother (she's 22). She was boasting how he was shy at first how she seduced him and took his virginity when she stayed at my house last week.

I wanted to knock her out, another of my friends had to stop me. How could she take advantage of him like that, he's only 14. How could she get any pleasure out of it knowing how young he was . Today she's posted a facebook message saying she is the proud owner of a certain young mans cherry. I'm so angry I could kill her

What should I do about her and what should I say to my brother

[Quentin_Crisp]

"She was boasting how he was shy at first how she seduced him and took his virginity".......

Do you think he consented, justin?.....and will this abuser of young boys move on to her next target, if not stopped NOW.......maybe she may try a 12 year old next, eh?.....she needs to be reported and damn quickly too......oh, and who's to say she has'nt done this before to other brothers of her "friends", but just kept it quiet.

[smartie733]

if they could give valid consent it would not be against the law

[tamborine]

too late to act as he could have made her pregnant.....he'll be back for more & will need to grow up fast & face reality.

[dothawkes31]

why is it not rape? the fact that she has bragged that he was shy at first could be taken as she forced him, sorry but it is statutory rape surely.

Love the name zabadak, it reminds me of Dave Dee Dozy Beaky Mick and Titch

[mike11111]

If your former best friend had been a man, and your brother your 14 year old sister, I don't think we would be having this discussion - you would know what to do automatically. I suggest that you proceed on that basis, although from a practical point of view perhaps a very strong word with your brother, leaving him in no doubt that you are fully aware of the circumstances, and the consequences of any repetition, might serve to draw a line under the situation and avoid any unpleasant repercussions.

[Justincider]

OK simple answer go to the police. I doubt if he'll thank you for it though.

[dh001]

Sorry, dothawkes31 I should have explained. Under UK law, a woman can not rape a man.

The fairly recent and excellent Sexual Offences Act of 2003 does provide specific serious offences to deal with these issues.

[mike11111]

It may be true that under UK law a man cannot rape a woman (I don't know) but they can certainly **** him up something serious!

[mike11111]

Got the last one the wrong way round, meant to say woman can't rape a man.

[Mosaic]

Reverse the genders and think about this situation - it is clearly paedophile abuse, and the perpetrator should be stopped by the law before she acts again.
While every lad dreams of a good old seeing-to, the power balance of a 'mature' adult manipulating an underage child into sex is not healthy.

[brenda]

Straight answer -- go to the police , she is an abuser of children.

[redcrx]

same "woman"? http://www.theanswerb...k/Family/Family-Life/

[Androcles]

Yeah - Is this a wind - up? And how many older guys are wondering "where were all these women when I was 14?"............

[B00]

Oooo you're a sneak woman Red ;-)

[redcrx]

thanks, B00 i shall take that as a compliment :)

[Quentin_Crisp]

Well spotted, redcrx....if you ever go in fancy dress as a policewoman, i would risk my gayness for a ganders, my lovely...................please! :0) xx

[redcrx]

hey QC, will this do ya? http://pixftw.com/wp-...s/2008/08/2vx0wzk.jpg

[Quentin_Crisp]

Sorry for delay in answering, redcrx...doing stuff...not exactly what i was hoping for....nooooooo! x

[zzxxee]

You have a duty to other young boys and a duty to your brother report it NOW !!!!!!!!

[VeroniK]

Just find out your brother's point of view on it, perhaps, he is of another opinion..