4get - poor choice of words on my part. I didn't mean take it out on you as in shout at you or whatever, but he may resent you for it, and sometimes when someone is laid back they bottle things up. It would be a pity if something like this soured what seems to be a really good relationship. If you choose not to tell him you have to make sure you don't blurt it out after a few drinks or something though, cos the longer you've known and said nothing the harder he may take it. Whatever you choose to do, good luck x