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Tiamaria- I'm sorry too that my posts seem to attract nastiness - but then that's the way with some people and I think you have to pity them.
Well love, the first hint I would give you is, there are more than two temperatures on an oven/grill besides on full blast and off! No, joking apart, put something like a grill on full to pre-heat, but beofre you put your food under turn it down - unless you're going to stand and watch the food so it doesn't burn! Invest in a timer or see if your watch has an alarm and set it for half way through cooking times so you can turn things round/over and if things look like they're going to burn, turn the heat down a little. Practice makes perfect, when oven cooking meat, tin foil is a great help it will shield the food and can be taken off the last 15 mins or so, so things can brown. If in doubt, best off to cook at a lower temperature for a little longer - and if things dry out there's always sauce! Be proud of what you serve, and if it is a little burnt around the edges bluff it out and say it's 'cajun blackened'!!