You haven't said what meat you are cooking, fruitsalad, or is it a vegetarian dinner menu?
I guess I am a traditionalist/dinosaur but only serve yorkshire puds with beef. If cooking turkey or chicken it has to be lemon, parsley and thyme stuffing. Sage and onion stuffing is always served with pork.
Enjoy making my own stuffing mixtures and sauces - cranberry and orange for poultry, cumberland for gammon and a sour apple sauce for the pork. Never had any complaints and they do taste far better than packet or supermarket brands.
I would err on the side of generosity with the veg - nothing worse than having to eke out all the food between the last 2 plates! You can always keep back some of the veg in the warm oven for second helpings. Whatever you do have a lovely meal :)