a neighbour became quite a good friend, but since her man moved in (about 2 years ago) I tend to only see her when she wants something, or when she has some unexpected spare time.
I've just had a text "long time no see. fancy lunch? it's my first free day for ages".
I don't have plans for today but can't decide whether to go. obviously I'm not too bothered either way.
what do you think?
You've got to balance it between how much do you want to know what she wants and how much not knowing what she wanted is going to bother you...
What's better ???
Never allow others to make you do things you don't want to do, or which you feel is not right. If you do, you'll be allowing them to control you. If you do go to lunch, keep this at the back of your mind. :-)