A new product has just been distributed by P&G. It�s the Febreeze product added to the washing powder/liquid. It�s composition is different and does not serve as a softener. The reason I mention this is I�m not certain whether you are looking for the fragrance or the softening features. Any Boots store still sells raw borax. You�ll find by using that, or even bicarbonate of soda, in your rinse cycle, your clothes will be much softer. I�m assuming you don�t use a tumble dryer. If you do, perhaps using the fabric sheets instead.
A word of caution about the washing powders/liquids that contain combined softeners, e.g. Bold, etc., They actually inhibit the complete cleaning of your clothes, especially in an environment where you use cold water. I�d discourge those types of products. It also warrants consideration to alternate between washing products to prevent a build-up. I apologise if I didn�t very effectively address your questions, but hopefully you�ll be able to find something from this.
I wish you success
Fr Bill