What Do I Do If My Work Don't Reply?

[abbeylee90]

I've sent the care home an email asking if I can change my days as my new job days were only available Monday yo Wednesday. What do I do they haven't replied to my email.

[newmodarmy]

Ignore all that about what your colleague says. I would assume your employer is not interested in giving you more hours in any circumstances.

[scorpiojo]

(colleague)

[Canary42]

That was colleague helly

 

[Floko]

Colleague !

[abbeylee90]

New I said to that to her anyway as they've taken on someone else 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, I think the care home are treating you the same way as you are treating them - they'll give you one day a week until something/someone better comes along! It'd be good if your second week in the new job went better than the first - but a total of 29 hours (in total) is surely not the ideal?  Is your mum not pushing you to get a real/full-time job? 

[Moorea7]

What about father? Does he not get a word in Abbey?  

[abbeylee90]

Yes of course that why supervisor couldn't change my day to Thursday instead of Monday and Wednesday so more than likely see less of me or I leave. I'm not down to work over any Xmas period there.

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks, Abbey. You're obviously not intending to stay at the care home, nor are the care home intending to offer you a permanent, full-time job. You'll maybe have to step up a gear for looking for a  post with decent hours! The past few months have seen you trying various things, various places, but so far nothing has worked out. 

[abbeylee90]

Nevacross yes I can't live on 9 hours per week or I'd be happy if I had enough hours but will have to look for something full time. I'm starting to regret turning the warehouse down.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, maybe all the upheaval - and the lack of success - over the past few months has given you a bit of a jolt? If you do end up back in a warehouse job, I think you'll need to give it all you've got, to try to get a permanent, full-time position. 

[abbeylee90]

Well I always asked my supervisor when I wad there what jobs shall I do and fact that they replaced me before I went is what makes it a tricky one.

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks,Abbey - but wasn't that the job where you said the supervisor made you feel uncomfortable (later you said he was a bully)? 

[abbeylee90]

No supervisor was nice that was the manager 

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks,Abbey. I do remember little snippets, but not all the details! Was the warehouse the place the girl was bullied because she was female? I think you maybe also mentioned bad reviews? Anyway,that job didn't last, didn't work out- and there's no point in looking back, that won't help your current situation.

[Moorea7]

Do you still volunteer at the kennels, Abbey  - is this at weekends?

[abbeylee90]

Yes never you are right.

[abbeylee90]

Moore yes I do 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, it'd be good if you just shunted all the previous bad experiences to the very back of your mind! Put your time and energy into getting the next full-time job and then make sure you do enough for that to be a permanent one. 

[abbeylee90]

I'll do my very best obviously first week I'll be knackered