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Divorce.
If your wife decides to leave the marital home through her own accord, what is she entitled to take. If divorce happens, I have evidence of adultary and maritial deception(she is unaware)I will use this should it come to this, she will no doubt contest my unreasonable behaviour in that I put the business first to provide for her and the kids. She has a very good wage and enjoys the lifestyle however, she says she has had enough. I have tried to reason without success.
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Hi Tylers. I don't usually comment on these kinds of threads but one thing caught my eye.
Perhaps your wife does have a valid claim of unreasonable behaviour. I was in business for 12 years and I know that the business will always come before family. I had no children and my first wife worked with me but I know if a valued customer wants your service at night,...
Perhaps your wife does have a valid claim of unreasonable behaviour. I was in business for 12 years and I know that the business will always come before family. I had no children and my first wife worked with me but I know if a valued customer wants your service at night,...
21:33 Wed 05th Oct 2011
I feel for you tylers, My husband left in June on my birthday of all days as he wanted to be single again. I was a mess but getting to grips with it. My solicitor advised me to have my name put on the land registry so that OH could'nt sell the house or take out a loan on it. OH said he wanted a divorce but 4 months down the line he has'nt made a move,Im the one who's been shelling out money to my solicitor but I've out things on hold and Im waiting for OH to see a solicitor. Good luck.
Oh I meant to say he only took what he wanted such as his clothes,cd's,a tv and a small outdoor tool shed. He won't have any contact with me at all even though I've texted him asking for us be amicable at least. He does'nt reply and my kids,both adults won't bother with him now but he does'nt seem to care.
First of all Sara3, the reason I am not doing it is down to class, I have , she hasn't. I want to protect my children.
"What risks are seedy liasions to your children?" is that a real question? Ok, calm down me...what if she starts doing it where ever she sets up home(absolute risk). The fact she does this in a £12 travel lodge suggests she can do it anywhere, I base this on her previous form of being a you know what.
Thank you to all others for your kind words.
"What risks are seedy liasions to your children?" is that a real question? Ok, calm down me...what if she starts doing it where ever she sets up home(absolute risk). The fact she does this in a £12 travel lodge suggests she can do it anywhere, I base this on her previous form of being a you know what.
Thank you to all others for your kind words.
People's choice of sexual partner once they are not married to you is none of your business and you will have to give your wife ( nice terms you refer to her by, by the way) the kudos that she takes appropriate responsibility with regards to your and HER children. Clearly things are very bad between you, so in both your interests maybe you need to call it a day.
Nox, thank you, you hit the nail on the head. She is still my wife and still married to me, she lives with me and the kids....I just know what she is up to. Things are difficult however, not as bad as she thinks due to my intel. You mention HER children, would you expose children to such skanks without supervision or at least being aware of what was going on?
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Hi Tylers. I don't usually comment on these kinds of threads but one thing caught my eye.
Perhaps your wife does have a valid claim of unreasonable behaviour. I was in business for 12 years and I know that the business will always come before family. I had no children and my first wife worked with me but I know if a valued customer wants your service at night, the weekend, anniversary, the wife's or children's birthday etc you have to look after them. The wife and children have to understand that customers come first as they pay the bills and put food on the table.
It seems to me that you have had to work all the hours in the same way and you mention that in your question. Your wife had obviously felt sufficiently lonely that she's had to find other company. That's not your fault Tylers. It's an old saying that business and family don't mix. It seems that your marriage has broken down because you drifted apart and your wife will claim that. I think she will have a strong argument and may well be entitled to half of everything - especially if she helped you in some way such as doing accounts, cooking etc.
My first wife and I sold our business then divorced as she was a violent alcoholic and she couldn't argue my case. That was a little different to your case but I think your wife might have a point if she or the children hardly saw you. I hope everything goes well. Good luck.
Perhaps your wife does have a valid claim of unreasonable behaviour. I was in business for 12 years and I know that the business will always come before family. I had no children and my first wife worked with me but I know if a valued customer wants your service at night, the weekend, anniversary, the wife's or children's birthday etc you have to look after them. The wife and children have to understand that customers come first as they pay the bills and put food on the table.
It seems to me that you have had to work all the hours in the same way and you mention that in your question. Your wife had obviously felt sufficiently lonely that she's had to find other company. That's not your fault Tylers. It's an old saying that business and family don't mix. It seems that your marriage has broken down because you drifted apart and your wife will claim that. I think she will have a strong argument and may well be entitled to half of everything - especially if she helped you in some way such as doing accounts, cooking etc.
My first wife and I sold our business then divorced as she was a violent alcoholic and she couldn't argue my case. That was a little different to your case but I think your wife might have a point if she or the children hardly saw you. I hope everything goes well. Good luck.
