harasment at work

[mitsubishimi]

a contracted woman at work who has since left has put in a written claim that i harassed her bye e mail,it was from my house to her at work. there was no sexual sugestions in them only 4 or 5 she asked me to stop and i did but inbetween times we still spoke . now im upstairs being investigated and possible going to go to dissaplinary actions , does she have a claim and can i get sacked

[CheekyChops]

You have already asked this once and had some good replies.

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Law/Civil/Quest ion791661.html

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Law/Civil/Quest ion791168.html

[mitsubishimi]

disregard all previous and just try and answer this query for me

[factor-fiction]

I'm struggling to follow this.
For example, can you explain the bit that says " there was no sexual sugestions in them only 4 or 5 "
What did you say in your emails?
Without much more information I'm not sure we can help.

[buildersmate]

You seem to delight in telling us about your sexual exploits.
The basics of this case are:
1) A former contractor at the place where you work has written to management and accused you of harassment
2) Management are currently investigating it

The likely expectation is that they will ask to talk to you about it, to hear your side of the case. Then they will decide what action to take. It may be advice only (not to be such a silly boy in future), it may involve using the disciplinary procedure - for example a verbal or written warning. Only in the event that the company deemed that you had committed gross misconduct could you be dismissed for the first and single offence. This (IMHO) is unlikely.
If you were dismissed, you could use the internal appeal procedure, or even take the case to an Employment Tribunal on grounds of unfair dismissal.

[mitsubishimi]

ok thanks for answers
i only sent about five and same from her ,there was no hint of sex in any of them, this was back in late feb to early march, she asked me to stop the e mails i said ok and that was that , but in the mean time we were still talking to each other on the shop floor.
then at end of march she was reposted else where then she got a job with a contractor on site ,
then all of a sudden she made a formal complaint near the end of july and has now been sacked from the job she had .
does the my company still need to pursue it when the woman in question hasnt work for us in the last 5 to 6 months and now of site sacked dont know why but finding out why

[mitsubishimi]

this is the thing my house computer to her at work is it nothing to do with them.
i was in court and it got in the papers that i had worried a woman i wrote a note to that was intersepted bye her boss and he desided to bring the cops in. she was up for all mutualy it was a breach of the peace, but court reporter sensaitionaised it a bit ,now the work is trying to tie them both together .
just after it appearing in the paper thats when her claim went in. then she got sacked

[buildersmate]

Talk about making a mountain from a molehill. Just stop worrying yourself about it. I've given you the advice of someone who has worked in HR dealing with industrial relations matters for 7 years. IMHO it ain't going to happen.
The company would have to conclude that you were bringing the company into disrepute. Otherwise what you do in your own time is your business.
Possible if one is in a senior position, which doesn't seem very likely to be your situation.

[mitsubishimi]

i put a note on her car window saying e me then i thought shouldnt have done that she contacted me saying did i have the right car ,i said yes next e was who r u isaid u know me not sure i should say as im a married man , then i put my name on it .she said oh , then we saw each other at work saying nothing . then i said in an e would u like to meet sometime , she said no next we were at work and she was talking about a past boyfreind she was quite depressed and was saying when she split she was suasidal she was in a low state but i couldnt say anything so when i got home , i e mailed her saying she was a beutifull woam and quoted some of the things she was talking about , then saw her a couple of days later said nothing but spoke shop in front of other guys , next e she said stop e mailing me i said ok and that was it

[factor-fiction]

Clear as mud.

[mitsubishimi]

unicorn thanks for that answer im going to have to tell the wife , yes the other woman is a fem fatelle who has it in for men . and im a putts for being lured to her . ive read all the policys son harressment at work and there is a lot of clauses all seem to be geared up for the victim up to the accused to fight for himself , and you cant even get a lawyer involved . looks like you dont have any human rights . they dont tell you about anxiety stress strain this is having on your mental fisical health , as ive mentioned because i was in the paper with a previous court case they have allready condemned me and have a sentence for me no matter what i say to defend myself

[mitsubishimi]

got to tell her truth is killing me inside plus a guy at my work his wife works beside mine and he is an evil bastxxd mind you so,s his wife , thing is she has most probable started a whipering allready if she finds out from someone else it will be worse for me bye